Black guys and big butts.....???

Question

I know this is a stupid question but I'm allowed to at least have one right lol..Anyways, I met this black guy during orientation and he started a conversation with me. He kept saying how beautiful I was and seemed interested in my diverse background because I'm multiracial. I thought he was cute so we went out on a date but something that he said at the end of the night got me thinking. He said I was almost perfect. He said if I only had a bigger butt I would be perfect. He even went on to say that I had the looks and the b***s but not the butt which I felt was a bit much for the first date so I never talked to him again. I think I made him feel too comfortable to the point where he felt like it was ok to say something like that. Anyways, A week later, I saw him on campus with a girl that had a huge butt like that girl on Flavor of Love and I was wondering, do you believe that most black guys like or prefer a girl with a body (big butt) more than a girl with a pretty face???

I know everyone is different, and I have seen black guys with skinny girls before, but I'm talking about the majority.

Answer 1

yeah a nice phat butt is always a plus

Answer 2

My best friend (he's a guy) loves big butts! I definitely think that a lot of black guys love big butts. Too bad mine is on the medium side lol!

Answer 3

Men in general prefer assets (be that b***s or big butts).  

Answer 4

yessh most guys love a girl wid a fatty and a small waste i even like that. it dont matter the race asian and white and latino guys prefer a thick azz too.

Answer 5

If a man is only concerned with your looks and body type, he's only after one thing and the relationship will never grow into what you as a woman expect it to.  It took me a long time to realize this.  In order to be truly happy, you have to find that man who yes...thinks you are beautiful, but isn't so concerned about body parts that turn him on.  If this guy really wanted to get to know you, your butt would be the last thing on his mind.  He sounds like he has a weenie that is out of control.  You made a good judgement call on that one.

Answer 6

To be honest, yes, many black men like a girl with a big butt.  And, some will turn down someone more attractive in the face for a girl who fits this physical description.  But there are just as many who would rather have a girl who's a 10 in the face, but doesn't have the biggest behind.

Each person is different.

Answer 7

honestly i think it would be kinda shallow for a guy to think like that. probably better off without him. Kinda messed up to point out not having a huge butt.

Answer 8

i think alot of guys in general like big butts

i don't know if the majority of black guys do though, because i don't know the majority of black guys

Answer 9

How can you talk about the majority?  The ones you have seen do not represent the majority of black men.  Guys (not just black) prefer women with big butts just like they prefer women with large b***s. It's just a matter of personal preference. Having no butt was probably a major turnoff for him and perhaps it was something that he could not overlook no matter how pretty he thinks you are.  

Answer 10

Dey like de big booty . Dag, dont you know that already?  

Answer 11

I can only hope most Black guys aren't that superficial, but all guys have a thing for something. Some men can't even handle the site of seeing your back/halter tops...makes them crazy.

...but yes. I think you did the right thing as far as dropping him. Some things you just don't say. I can't stand ***hole men.