Blaming in marriage?

Question

Have you ever blamed your spouse for something that was your own fault?

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Answer 1

Yes and I learnt to behave properly afterwards.

Answer 2

hehe ya once i blamed him for earasing pics in the camera when it was really me

Answer 3

nah we stopped that stupid game long ago.  We rarely fight anymore.  Oh yah..sometimes she hides my stuff.

Answer 4

no, we have practiced honesty so long, its just natural.

Answer 5

yes I have.  

Answer 6

We don't do that.........we are very best friends!

Answer 7

once, i farted, and then i pretended like it wasn't me and actually got him convinced that he'd done it w/out knowing. but after like 5 minutes, i busted out laughing and told him i was just kidding, i knew it was me.

Answer 8

sometimes and it p**s him off so he does not talking to me for a while

Answer 9

Yes I have...Now I am learning the importance of taking responsibility for my own actions, words, and thoughts. Having integrity parallels with having respect for a spouse. This is what makes a relationship grow when there is accountability of ones own doings. Relationships helps us to grow...at least this is what I hope for...

Answer 10

Absolutely.

Answer 11

blaming the spouse is easier to do then to deal with ones own issues,and be accountable.people do point the finger at the other to justify their own actions, to get rid of the guilt.

Answer 12

Yea I have done this several times but I'm not one to admit I'm wrong...LOL!