Boderline personality disorder.advice

Question

well, i need a bit of advice..hence why i am here.

I have, and have had for the last 2-3 years the majority of symptoms for borderline personality disorder.

Its just fukd up my relationship finally after three years, i wanted him gone and now i want him back.He even said its like a i have a split personality. he called my angry evil side bertha lol.

As a coping mechanism sort of thing, i have recently developed bulimia, which is spiralling out of controll. I havn't cut for 2 years and i dont intend to.

i think about suicide though, not that it would come to that.

I just feel as though i am on self destruct.

i go thru stages of going out getting S**t faced ,waking up with strangers, or turning the night into some big drama. dont know how my mates put up with me to b honest. i only really have one good one left, and she doesnt really give a c**p.

I'm always 'there for her' but she doesnt rlly give a toss...

ok. im going on a bit.

but basically anyone who has the disorder, does this sound like it could be borderline? if so, who do i speak to, my doctors? what on earth do i say

i'm having a down day, ive been rejected my my ex WAH HEY. and the 50 quid ive spent in my lunch break hasn't made me feel better lol

any advice?

Answer 1

   You can talk to you PCP or see a psychiatrist (if you have one).  I would talk about your symptoms and how you are feeling.  Especially the suicidal thought you are having.  There are criticera you have to meet to have BPD I would ask question if it's Borderline, what are the side effect of the medications, your treatment and how maybe you can get into Dialectical Behavior therapy (DBT).  I hope this help.  

Answer 2

this does sound like bpd, what you need to do is print of all the symptoms and sit down with your GP/doctor and explain which ones you have and why,

email me if you wish to chat i have bpd

Answer 3

I have BPD and you sound a lot like I used to be!

Try this website:

www.borderlinepersonalitydisorder.com

Or just Google it.

There are lots of sites with symptom descriptions and tests for BPD.

Tell a dr. that you think you have BPD, and that you need help for this.

This is a serious disorder, and very often misdiagnosed and very misunderstood, even by professionals.

Don't let anyone blow you off,though.

Hope this helps.:)

Answer 4

I had an ex with borderline, theres a book out called " I hate you, dont leave me" thats real informative, but seeing a therapist is whats gonna help the most