Both men and ladies please answer!!!!!?

Question

I want to make love with my boyfriend... I am on birth control (he dosent know) but I still would want him to use a c_ondom. soo 1. How do I talk to him about making love in the first place, we are both virgins... we have not talked about it yet....what do I say how do I start the convo???? and 2. how would I tell him to use protection??

Answer 1

you should start off by saying i wanna talk about taking our relationship to the next step, i think we should become intimant and then ask him what his thoughts are, and if he agrees, the u should say well we both need protection, and im sure he will be ok with it, and just maybe set a date for a romantic dinner and then well take the next step  

Answer 2

Just start kissing him kind of when you're laying down and maybe he'll get excited as well as you. When you start to move on have a condom for him and ask him if he didn't mind.

Maybe he'll be responsible and have one beforehand. How old are you?

Answer 3

Just talk about it. It seems awkward, but once you get into the conversation it should become easier.

Ask him about his thoughts on contraception. If you only want to use a condom make that very clear. Say something like "I think it shows respect for both parties when they use a condom, and I always would." Make your stance unequivocal.

Maybe get a range of different condoms and go through them with him, picking out which you'd want to try first.

Make it fun and exciting. You're preparing to make love, so take your time and make sure everything is how you want it, including protection.

Answer 4

well maybe you should just talk to him about it and then if he seems ok with it then one day when your making out just go further, and I'm sure if he doesnt know that your on birth control he will have a condom, and if he doesnt then tell him your not making love untill he gets one.

Answer 5

i dont know the first.. but i think he would just put the condom on cuz its common sense.

Answer 6

Why do you want to lose your virginity to him?  Why don't you wait for somebody and sometime special.  I'm sure that if you are already on the pill, he's probably carrying around a condom.  Just be safe.