Boy Problems, Help ??

Question

1) Okay , So i REALLY like this boy "/ But he is like a player,. he gets all the girls . And almost every girl likes him . So its nothing new to him . But i know for sure he doesnt like me . But everytime he hurts me or something i hate him . But then im over it like that ! && I START LIKING HIM AGEN . ! Something keeps pulling me back to him. He is really concieted , bad attitude , EVERYTHING YOU DONT WANT IN A GUY ! Should i TRY an give up on him ? :[ .

2) There is this guy one year older than me , & he sais he likes me. and im kind of starting to like him a little bit, but i barley know him. We talk all the time though . & he wants to talk to me on the phone & meet hang out , && i want to too . i go to his practice an stuff but i dont talk to him . All i do is text him an message . Because im REALLY REALLY shy. And I want to be able to talk to him on the phone and in person but i dont know how to overcome my shyness "/ Any suqqestions ?

Answer 1

i totally understand both of your problems.

1) this boy is immature. but you're attracted to him, i think it would be best for you to try and get over him, just start focusing on other guys and every time you start thinking about him, remind yourself about how much a of jerk he is and all the bad things about him.

2) talking on the phone first is a great way to start. i'm really shy too so i know how hard it can be to talk to him in person. but yeah, have him call you and you can gradually get over your shyness. just get to know him some more and you'll be fine.  

Answer 2

1) Of course dont let some guy treat you like c**p and then just like him again thats not very smart so just get over him i mean obviously he aint worth it.

2) Just try not to be shy and talk to him because if you dont than you will regret it all your life and one day you will think back saying "man i should have just talked to him" so try your hardest to just not be shy =P

I hoped i helped

Answer 3

Sounds like the player guy is black.

Forget him and go for the other good guy.

:)

Answer 4

Well. as for this guy u really like.

forget him. he is obviously not worth it.

i can see where u are to shy to talk to him. but have him call u and even if u don't talk that much, u will get the feel of it and once u have the phone thing down, go see a movie or something

and for this really cocky guy, he will wish he would of had u once ur gone :]