Boy advice? Help?

Question

Alright so theres this guy that I've had a crush on for maybe 6 months+ I've known him for about 2 1/2 yrs. But were friends, actually we havent exchanged numbers but were in the same group of friends and all. So we talk. But anyway this previous year, (@ the beginning of the yr.) he had this joke w/ me where he would always touch me and hug me like he was crushing on me or something. (but it was a joke) So at first I just kind of brushed off the joke, but then I started to get really annoyed and I got really mad at him. So I stopped talking to him for a couple days, but then we made up and we were all good. So about a month passed and he started doing it again. But I had started to like him, so I was totally fine with it. But this time it was sort of different, we started to get a lot closer. Hes sort of one of those guys where your either on his good side or bad side, hes either nice to you or he hates you-kind of person. And he was always nice to me.

Answer 1

I see red flags. Why do you like him? Did you establish borders? Your the women you know. Sounds flaky. You need someone who is a gentleman, kind and respectful. Even tempered. Integrity.

Answer 2

It sounds like he likes you and he is to shy to just come out and tell you. The things he is doing like the hugs and the other things sound like maybe its his way of trying to give you a hint. Maybe you should come right out and tell him. I hope that helps and good luck.

Answer 3

get his number and start hanging out more this summer..

Answer 4

I'm with her get his no. Text him n call him n hangout

Answer 5

get his # AND TELL HIM U REALY LIKE HIM

Answer 6

I would be talking to him in the summer time. Maybe go to the pool or something. See about him coming to have dinner... maybe watch movies or something. nothing more then you are comfertable with. I think you would have more o a chance if you hung out in the summer time rather then in the school year only!

So find out his number and call him once or twice a week... If he tells you to call him back or something, i would make sure you call him back. Like if your talking on the fone and it is time to eat... and he says call me back tommrrow... as what time and call him back at that time. Maybe it might work out.

Good luck!

Answer 7

hey to be honest this guy is not at all a nice guy he crack jokes of hugs and kisses he is just interseted in you physically i dont know why you started liking him but he is just another goy looking to have s*x with different girls ....but if you really wanna try and u dont believe me then try calling him or when u meet him go out on a date and then i m  sure he will try to have s*x then say no for s*x and tell him we can hang out but i m not interested in any physical relationship with you ....he will for sure stop talking to u and will add you in his bad side...try that how that works and if he understands you and still be with u after that then i m wrong and he is a nice guy nothing wrong abt hanging out with him.........