Boy and life problems ?

Question

well it started like this ,i was thirteen felt as if i was grown up enough to do you know what , and when i did i regretted it , it got spread around school and i ended up being called a s**t for a good 3 months ,a while passed and i made some good group of friends ,but the things started getting bad ,i was a realy shy girl ,but the boys ended up fancying me , and my friends got real jealous , and they think that i make them fancy me ,yet there realy loud ..Its a bit complicated to explain .And then i went out with this guy for 9 months and then i finished with him ,and then guys started on me again , and i think ive made the worst mistake ever , i just need somebody atm as im having a rough time at home :/ , sorry about the confusion

Answer 1

im a guy so i know how they think. the best thing to get emm off yeah is tell them ur with someone dont say who. if u wana just talk my aim is ipmendy77 and my xfire is ipmendy XD good luck

Answer 2

Hi im 16 and have had alot of problems at school through the years. Though what has happened to you hasnt happened to me. You can try ignore the guys for a while and soon they will start to get fed up and chase other girls. As with your freinds talk to them about how you feel, and they might just understand and get the other boys to back off.

Answer 3

explain to ur friends what happened and maby theyll understand and if they do than ur set but dont worry bout the dudes there millions in the world =) ur problem doesnt have that many guys so if u meet a new one he wont no anything bout ur past or anything

Answer 4

sorry your description is REALLY confusing lol

i kinda had the same thing before. i won't go into details because it's

kinda long, but i can understand what you're feeling.

okay, just tell the guys to BACK OFF

you're just trying to get through something called life and it's hard as it is. just keep away from them and ignore them

hang out with your friends and maybe introduce some of them to some boys or something so they won't be jealous

i'm sorry if i'm no help

i know what THAT feels like :D

Answer 5

You can't undo the past but you can learn from it.  If you don't want people to think that you are a S****y girl then don't have s*x with anyone.  Wait until you are ready and you know that it is right for you.  13 is really to young to start having s*x so stop now before it gets out of control.  

If you friends aren't supportive of you then they probably really aren't your friends.  You don't need to hang out with people who make you feel bad about yourself.  

You made a bad choice, learn from it and don't repeat it.  If friends can't be understanding then find new friends.  

Answer 6

People make mistakes, unfortunately yours was a bit of a biggie. Your peers are going to talk and it will hurt. Hold your head up high and next time you have a boyf, refuse s*x the first time he asks for it so you don't look "easy". Hopefully the talking will die down after a while

hope that helps

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^ Am I being selfish or do I have a right to be annoyed with my friend?

Answer 7

i'm a teenage guy and i know it can be rough these days. i'm sorry to hear that you've done things you regret, i know that regret is a horrible thing. juggling guys and school and family can be confusing so just take it slow and think everything through before you do it. there's plenty of time for guys in high school and college but rushing into relationships is usually problematic. i'm not sure what your question was exactly but there are always people there for you, especially your family and your teachers at school. if you want to message me you can do that as well.

Answer 8

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