Boy at my daughters school?

Question

Theres is this boy at my daughters school who pulled down her skirt and made fun of her panties! my daughters was wearing a Pink pair of panties say princess of them, what is wrong with that, also my friend's daughter also happened to her at school, and she was wearing Pooh bear ones! What should i do?

Answer 1

CALL THE PRINCELBUL cuz there going to be a laughing stock for ages and tht boy  needs to be at exclusion

Answer 2

Any parents who have had children that this has happened to need to call a urgent meeting with the head teacher and the boys parents this needs to stop as it is harrassment the boy needs to know this is not acceptable as when he gets older he may do worse. Times are changing and any sign of dodgy behaviour needs to be brought to attention. Sorry that this happened to your little girl.

Answer 3

The boy that is pulling down your daughters panties is invading her personal boundaries by a long shot and this could also be a form of assault

tell someone immediatley and watch out for your daughter

Answer 4

o to the boy and seriously talk to him

Answer 5

Boys should not do that to girls. It is very innappropriate. That boy must be a pervert or is just annoying. I suggest that you talk to the school principal. I am pretty sure that the principal will not tolerate that type of fooling around.

Answer 6

What's wrong with that?  I sure hope you were being facetious!

The school should be notified.

The actions taken will depend on the ages of the children.  For instance a kindergartener will most likely sit down with the principal and their parents (and the parents will most likely make sure the kid doesn't sit down for a long time after that).

A 6th grader would probably be suspended, and/or criminal action taken.

Answer 7

Bring the principle and the boys parents into a meeting

Answer 8

Well, it kind of depends on how old your daughter is, and also how old the boy is!

If this happened in kindergarten, the boy should be spoken to, and perhaps given a time-out from recess, but I don't think any further action would be necessary.  

If these children are older than third grade, more serious action is called for.   At that age, the boy is certainly old enough to know that pulling down a girl's skirt is completely inappropriate.  You should complain to the principal, and the boy should be given an in-school suspension.

Answer 9

Go up to school and raise cane. It's completely inappropriate behavior on this boy's behalf he needs to at least get detention and a parent teacher conference, as well as a nicely thought out apology face to face. I know kids are mean but that really is just bullying girls around, you know this kid doesn't pick on boys his age.

Answer 10

U know that you could get this kid on the sexual predator list.  There was a dateline on it and even kids that touches another on the butt just as a smack no matter age can be on the list.  This one kid was on it at 5.  I would threat them that you will get them if it ever happens again.

Answer 11

i would call the school. A boy should not be doing that to the girls. He should be punished. I would talk to the teachers and the principal.

Answer 12

what worked for me is as my kids grew i let them pick out some of their own clothes.that way if they like them they r less likely to be too embarrassed.tell her to say something they r cute arent they and he will give up because he cant get a rise out of her.she could ask him if her is makein fun because he doesnt have some then she will embarass him and then he would propably leave her alone and pick on someone else

Answer 13

I am assuming that child was punished and also that your daughter is young enough that it was meant to be funny as opposed to sexual in any way? Talk to the teacher and be sure to follow up by making sure the other parents are aware. The teacher should probably have a discussion with the whole class about inappropriate behavior in general. The more fuss you make, the better the odds are that action will be taken to prevent future occurances. Good luck!

Answer 14

You need to call the principal immediatley....that is wrong! No there's nothing wrong with Princess or Pooh panties but there is something wrong with a boy pulling a girls skirt down! And making fun of her on top of that! You really need to call right away so the roblem can be taken care of....he will be talked to/warned, maybe a detention....but he prob. won't do it again.

Answer 15

I would inform the teacher of whats going on..... to make sure it doesnt happen anymore...

But i think it is more of a funny thing for kids that age.... did she get upset about it, or think it was funny?

If she didnt see any harm in it... then im sure its not a big deal, if it keeps happening ... then there is an issue

Answer 16

I don't think the issue is about the kind of panties nor how the girl defends herself.  This is a serious problem.  First, the girl is going to feel uncomfortable (for a long while).  Second, the kid who did this to her has problems.  It's one things to call someone names.  It's another to physically abuse someone.  It's a whole other thing when someone TAKES YOUR CLOTHES OFF.  I would guess this kid might have some mental problems.  It would be interesting to know the age.  10 or up, you should sue...try to get him kicked out of the school for good if you can!  It's your daughter, do what you can to protect her.

Answer 17

contact the principal and put a stop to this immediatly! this boy needs help no matter what age he is! he should have been punished after the first time he done it. how old are your daughters? i would tell her that princess undies are in style. heck i'm 24 and have some that says drama queen and princess and everything else. tell her to say yeah, i think there adorable and keep her head high! (depending on her age)

Answer 18

theres nothing wrong with what they were wearing, and im assuming based  on this that they are really young, and i hope the boy  was too, if this is the case the boy just needs a good talking to from the principal and his parents/guardian, and hopefully that will be enough to stop it before hes old enough to get into real trouble over it.

Answer 19

There is nothing wrong with panties that say Princess.  Besides, there to protect her it doesnt matter if she was wearing blue polkadots, stars dont matter.

I would report this to the principal, he should NOT be doing that..

Answer 20

sue the kids parents for sexual harrasment

Answer 21

You need to report this incident to your principal or Superintendant, immediatley.  Request a sit down meeting with the boys parents also.  This behavior is unacceptable.  I'm not sure how old your daughter is but it is wrong at any age!   Demand an apology from the parents to you and from the boy to your daughter.  It is late in the year, but I would demand that he NEVER be in the same class as my daughter if I were you.  

You also need to speak to your daughter.  Comfort her but reiterate to her that this is unacceptable behavior and that she is to go to a teacher or adult in charge, immedietly if something like this or anything else that makes her uncomforable happens again.

Good Luck and let us know what happens!  :)

Answer 22

You need to tell the principle. My little sister had that happen to her. he needs to be set straight. You dont want this happening again. Explain to your daughter that she needs to tell a teacher when this happens. Your daughters have beautiful names =)

My name is Kathryn, But my nickname is Katey (I spell it different) And I was going to name my daughter lily before i miscarried.

Hope this helped.

Answer 23

Well I don't think the problem was so much about what your daughter was wearing, the problem was the fact that the boy pulled down her skirt. This would be what to expect from most boys around grade school age, impulsive and irrational.

What you should do is call the boys parents, and maybe even notify the school. Hopefully his parents can take the initiative and discipline their child as they see fit.

Hope this helps,

Dr. D

Answer 24

Speak to the teacher this behaviour is unacceptable and he needs to be dealt with and know it is wrong.Reassure your child that it was not her fault and that her undies are fine.

Answer 25

Teasing is one thing but this is out right harassment. Your daughter needs to feel safe at her school and having boys pull down her skirt will surely effect her self-esteem.

As a parent it's important you go straight to her teacher and principal and report these and any other incidents. Make sure to tell her that such incidents are not okay. She has rights and if she ever feels uncomfortable with the way someone talks to or touches her she can come to you.

Answer 26

File charges!!

Answer 27

This is a time to talk to the principal. The boy needs to have consequences for is actions so that he knows that what he did was not acceptable.

Chances are he likes your daughter. Young boys often flirt by behaving like stinkers.

Journalize each incident and report to the principal each time it happens. If nothing is done, take it to a higher authority.

In the meantime, encourage your daughter to wear pants to avoid harassment from potential skirt-pulling copycats. There will ALWAYS be one before the behavior is stopped.

Answer 28

You need to talk to the administration about this boy.  He, and his parents need to be there.  This needs to be handled NOW.