Boy issues, please help?

Question

ok so i went on a beach retreat with my church 2 weeks ago and id never met anyone in my youth group b4 but i met this guy named jacob, and we talked and stuff and everyone thought he liked me, everytime id look at him hed be looking at me, and he sit next to me when we played cards and make me laugh a lot and come everytime me and my friend went somewhere hed come with us, but after the retreat, i saw him at church on sunday, but now, his status on facebook is in a relationship, and i thought he liked me, and i liked him, im going to see him at church tomorrow, what do i do??

Answer 1

Nothing. You don't ignore him or treat him differently, just keep it neutral. It's not like he dumped you so you can't act hurt and he didn't ask you on a date so you can't act like a girlfriend. Sorry about this, some guys are just idiots.

Answer 2

If you're not ready to get married then you shouldn't have a deep relationship with a boy.  Find a good friend that's a girl, and when the time is right, God will bring to you the person you should marry.  Trust Him  

Answer 3

ask him on facebook. or in person. be like "hey jacob this might sound stupid but i thought you liked me at the church retreat? lol. i know its so funny. but anyways..... did you like me at all? or do you still like me?"  this might sound stupid. but i think he might have put in a relationship on his face book to make you jealous? its possible.. unless hes not like that but its just a thought. lol hope i helped! good luck!   (:

Answer 4

hes moved on so should u  

Answer 5

Find out from another person at your church that knows both of you if he really is in a relationship.  Some people just put that as their status for random reasons.  If he really is in a relationship, though, you may have misread the signals... or he may just be a real jerk, in which case its good that you found that out now.  :-/  Good luck!

Answer 6

boys aren't worth your strress, really, like a boy that your ment to be with shouldn't cause you any trouble in making a decision. the right guy will come and you'll know it. maybe it could be him, but not yet.

Answer 7

see if any of his friends know whether or not hes dating someone

Answer 8

ugh that happens :[ even though it sucks, this happens to everyone.

honestly, i think you should flirt even more, while still trying to play hard to get. like, just act cool with him. try not to get into a deep conversation with him, instead just be like "hey whats up?" and then thats it.

bat your eyes and look beautiful! he doesnt know what hes missing out on ;]

good luck sweetie!

Answer 9

Just act like normal and see if he looks at you like he did at retreat

then go from there

Answer 10

Maybe he thought that you were not interested in him so he just moved on. or maybe he is putting that there to make you jealous and make you think that he really is in s relationship but he is not. idk. you just ask grl if you really like him! : )

Answer 11

tell him what you are telling me tell him that you like him and ask him if he likes you i mean the worst that can happen is that he says no. so go for it... i hope things turn out ok for you ...

Answer 12

Sometimes people don't update facebook that often, or even go on it a lot. That could be the case. It sounds like this guy really likes you. I would give it some time, and hang around him some more, maybe ask some subtle questions like, what did you do last night, (date maybe...), or something like that.  

Answer 13

I would ask him if he's in a relationship, but don't say something that seems offensive. Ask him something like:

"So your facebook says you're dating?"

I think it would be a good play to mention his facebook. (If he knows that you know he has one)

If you ask it like this:

"Are you dating?"

It may turn out that he is dating and he might get a bit offended.

You don't have to take my advice, I just wanted to help a bit. I believe in a person's right to do or say what he or she feels is best. :)