Boy troubles:(...help?

Question

i met a guy who i've grown closer and closer to over the last year, when we met we really liked each other but decided leave as it was because we lived too far from each other. we have so much in common and hes my best friend aswell as someone i have very strong feelings for, and i was delighted to hear that we not only are going to the same college but will also be studying similar courses, I'm delighted il get to see him every day. iv only got one problem...iv a boyfriend, hes really sweet but i just don't know. hes also going to college 3 hours by train away from me and lives an hour away from me at home. we both work at weekends and wont probably get to see each other much. i know if we break up he'll be very upset and so will i...but i just don't think we'll be able to make it work. and i really like the other guy ALOT...someone help:( please

Answer 1

If you aren't sure about your current boyfriend then there must be something wrong and it's not fair to keep going out with him if your heart isn't in it.  It doesn't mean that the other guy is going to want to go out with you immediately though.  I've recently been in a similar position and when I ended things with my boyfriend I felt like all the pressure had gone and felt much better, that's how I knew it was the right choice.

Hope this helps.

Answer 2

Break up with your boyfriend if it doesn't feel right because it's not right to string him along. Then you can go out with the guy you really like x