Boyfriend & I want to have a kid but then he changes his mind?

Question

We have gone off & on about haveing a kid. He says yes at first, we try & as soon as I go to take the test he freaks out & says he doesn't want to have one. This has been going on for about 4 months. He says just wait. But i really want one! How can i convince him?

Answer 1

he's not ready.  don't try to talk him into it because at some point he's going to say yes just to get you off his back. why don't you wait a year or so and see if he's ready then.  you want him to be the best dad he can be and not live with a life of regrets.

Answer 2

He's not ready to be a father. You'd better wait for something like stability, career, marriage...

Answer 3

You can't And unless YOU are ready to spend at least the next 18 years caring for a baby alone you had better both stop playing games. You are not talking about a doll or a puppy you are  talking about a human being.You need to grow up don't do this to yourselves or a baby.