Boyfriend Situation! Help...?

Question

I got kind of upset because i told my boyfriend to come over my house for a cookout with my family, (and they are kind of intimidating) and he said he wouldn't feel comfortable being around them because he said he doesn't know how to carry conversations or what to say, so that's why he said he didn't want to come. The only time he said he will be around is when I have my graduation,Christmas,etc. should i be mad at him for this?

Answer 1

u cant ask someone how to feel about a sitution. if it makes u mad that he doesnt see u a lot, then talk to him about it. talking is a key thing ppl need to remember in any relationship. tell him how it makes you feel and that way u both hear 2 sides to the story. maybe u guys cud work out another way to see each other more often? or maybe u cud convince ur parents to be a little less intimidating with ur boyfriend. hes ur bf and i think u guys could work this out, and if he loves u enough, he shud be able to come see you, no matter how ur parents are with him.

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Answer 2

I can totally understand this so no I wouldnt force him if he feels uncomfortable  

Answer 3

yes. he really should make more of an effort, especially if he loves you.