Boyfriend acting weird? ?

Question

Well,

He doesn't talk to me on the phone at night anymore.

Barely texts me anymore.

Lies about little things and gets really mad when I get upset about it.

Acts shady about everything.

Uses his parents as excuses for EVERYTHING.

Like if I call him and he is on the other line the only person he is ever talking to is his Grandma, Who never calls his phone when I'm around.

And his parents tend to take his phone a lot.

Wen he is 17. :-/

And he deletes all his messages or his parents 'take his phone' before he comes to see me because he is grounded for NO apearant reason.

I ask him to take pictures of himself at the places he claims he is and I get no reply until I send another message.

I DONT KNOW WHATS HAPPENING.

What do I do to get over trust issues?

How do I find what he is hiding?

HELP

Answer 1

You're smothering him and he's struggling to breathe the fresh air of freedom.

Answer 2

I'd say he's seeing smb else..

Answer 3

Well

you know what to do

let him go he isn't there any way

and tell him you are sick of him acting like this

and ask him to tell you the Truth

(What do I do to get over trust issues?)

You can't give trust when he is not being trust worthy

(How do I find what he is hiding?)

you might never know but ask and be strong

hope this helps a bit

Answer 4

Sweetheart, it's simple.  You deserve to be with someone who treats you with respect.  Stop looking for answers b/c you'll never find them.  He's playing games.  He's controling the situation and you.  Is that what you want now?  For the rest of your life?  I bet you are a smart, beautiful young lady and knows what she needs to do.  But, if you need someone to tell you, I will.  Leave him.  Don't make a scene when you do so, simply state why you are doing it (without yelling or getting all emotional).  Don't go back.

You can do this.  Be true to yourself.  You are worth it.

Answer 5

Dump him he"s seeing someone else, You"ll get over him.

Answer 6

If you feel like you can't trust him, it's probably because you can't.  If he's hiding stuff from you and lying to you, why do you need to know what and why?  Just take it as a given and dump him.  Why bother going through all the hassle of spying on him and following him around just to see it right out in the open in your face.  How much proof do you need?  You shouldn't have to feel suspicious about the one you love.  Drop him before he turns you into a paranoid freak.

Answer 7

sounds like he might be cheating, but you know, that's really irrelevant at this point, he is treating you badly, move on for that reason and that reason alone, it is significant.

Answer 8

He is feeling overwhelmed and stressed about something. I think that the best you can do now, is give some space. You don't have to break up withhim but just act like you don't care anymore, if he calls great, if he doesn't it's ok he was probably busy & take it like that. Soon he will realize he is lossing you and will snap out of it.

Answer 9

he is probably not into you as before.

if he doesn't want to talk about it, it may be a done deal

relationship is based on communication and if he doesn't want to do that, then there is no relationship for you guys.

he may be interested in someone else so you don't know.

if he doesn't wish to discuss it, then it is OVER.

you've gotta get yourself out of this guy's life.

Answer 10

You know. Just be willing to trust your instincts and accept it.