Boyfriend and I trying to get pregnant?

Question

so, I'm 21 my boyfriend is 29. We both have good jobs. he owns a business and I make $11 an hour at my job. We have thought a lot about having kids and just starting trying to have kids. Recently we both went to the doctor. He told us that the best time for us to get pregnant would be the 1st through the 7th of this month. We'll we had s*x both the 2nd and the 3rd. I know its soon but I'm not feeling any symptoms of being pregnant I also just started getting this creamy white discharge. I've also heard its hard to get pregnant the first time. Is there any chance I could be pregnant and just haven't felt anything yet. I want to get some personal views before i get a test or go back to the doctor

Answer 1

well its to soon to KNOW right NOW but just wait and dont rush things just think possitive

Answer 2

why dont you get married first, so that you dont have a b*****d child.  if your are willing to commit to a child with each other, it would make sednse that you are willing to commit to a marriage with each other.  and if your not willing to be married, you shouldnt have a child with this person.

Answer 3

Their might be a chance that you are pregnant. For some people one time is all it takes for others it can take more than a year. My boyfriend and I have been trying since last december and still nothing, but we now the reason of why it hasn't happen. But if you and yours don't have any problems than it shouldn't be long before you succeed. And don't listen to these people who are saying to get married before you have kids because now a days everyone has kids before marriage. We're not in the old fashion days anymore so just ignore what these ignorant people tell you and Good Luck!

Answer 4

it would really be better for your baby if you and your bf were married first, that will give your baby the best possible start in life.

i know i'll get bashed for saying it but it's true.

yeah, don't listen to Kris, traditional families are out and 'baby mamas' are in.

Answer 5

Hang in there. My boyfriend and I are trying to get pg too. I'm 33-1/2 and waited to have kids - wish I wouldn't have! As my Reproductive Endocrinologist told me: "Time is not your friend," if you want to have kids. My advice: keep trying for one year. If it doesn't happen, visit a fertility doctor or RE.  

Answer 6

There is definately a chance your pregnant & not feeling any thing yet.  The symptons probably wont start until after you take the test.  You can get pregnant just as easily the first time as any other.  Just try to be patient & take a home test closer to the end of the month.

Answer 7

If you really want to get pregnant, you should buy an ovulation predictor kit to find out when you're really ovulating. This detects a hormone surge in your urine that tells you.

Wait until your period is one day late and then test.

Get married before having a baby. I had a friend who got pregnant with her boyfriend. Well, he cheated on her while she was pregnant with their second son and left her. Marriage is a stronger ground. Plus the child doesn't feel like they were an accident later on in life.

Answer 8

Please don't listen to that first lady (Kris). She is just being foolish. Marriage means nothing these days and that has nothing to do with how good of a parent you will be.

So anyway...I think you should just give it time until you reach your missed period and then test. It would be wayyy too soon to be feeling anything. I wish you the best of luck!!~

Answer 9

there's a great chance that your pregnant.you wont feel anything yet so be patient and try and have s*x a few more times just to be sure

Answer 10

I agree with you Kris!