Boyfriend and little girl?

Question

i have recently split with my partner of 6 years and we have a 3 year old child i have now moved my new boyfriend in who doesent have kids he said he would like to be a father figure for my little girl when she is with us

how involved do i let him be with her upbringing as a stepfather figure

Answer 1

Recently split w/ex of SIX yrs and u already moved in w/someone new? Normally id say thats ur business but you have a little girl. Grow up and think of her & you wouldnt have this problem

Answer 2

well if hes a great guy you should have no problem letting him get involved he might teach her some stuff that you can't you never now until you try    

hope this helps

Answer 3

well i was brought up with out my real father in the house you should make sure that your little girl likes your boyfriend and that shes comfortable around him you should have him around slowly at first but he could gratuity have him spend more and more time with her

good luck! :)

Answer 4

Well, in him moving in, he has become a parental figure.  But how much you let him depends on your comfort level as well as how long he has been in her life.  But you need to make it clear what the boundaries are so that he knows.