Boyfriend and roommate.?

Question

I feel as if my boyfriend will not take our relationship to the next level because I have a roommate. Guys out there would this stop you from taking a relationship further? Also Ladies what's your opinion of this?

Answer 1

That's the dumbest reason I have ever heard of. If that's the case then you need to get rid of this guy asap.

Are you talking about status wise or s*x?

I was refering to status wise.

Answer 2

If a guy is the insecure jealous type, it will bother him, but it shouldn't bother a normal guy as long as your upfront about the nature of your r/ship with your roommate, if you've ever been attracted to him, etc.

Answer 3

You're being very vague, "the next step" doesn't tell us much, also details on your roommate would help.

From the info given: No, the fact that my girlfirend happened to pay rent with someone else would not hinder my emotions in the least.

Answer 4

Is this roomate a guy or a girl? That changes everything. If it is a guy then, there ya go. If it girl, that wouldn't make any sense on why it should change how he would feel about you. So I am guessing it is a guy. Am I right or am I right?

Answer 5

I have a roommate and we did but we are both quiet in the bedroom, if you want loud s*x it ain't gonna work, time to move in with the boyfriend!

Answer 6

What is your roomate a girl or boy if it is a boy he will think you will cheat on him So in that case if it is a girl  then he is just a jerk!

Answer 7

Well as long as the roommate isn't home when first starting out being intimate, I don't see what the big deal is. You are both adults.

Answer 8

i can see his point if your roommate is always there..

you two should try going to his house or hanging out somewhere else..after all, it's not your roommates fault.

Answer 9

Is your roomate a boy?

Answer 10

Well he might be saving his virginity for marriage =I I mean you don't need to be intimate to be in love with someone just saying...:)

Answer 11

Simple, Dont let the roommate spoil everything.

And tell your bf that nothing going on.

Answer 12

well, in that sense he's a jerk if he'll be affected..who cares if u have a roommate? i used to have 6 roommates before...

Answer 13

o, well first of all, i think that you 2 should go out as much as you can, and lay it down on the line that you only like your boyfriend, and u and ur roommate r just friends. he should trust you

Answer 14

If he truly loves you, who cares you have a roommate?