Boyfriend confusion? Help please?

Question

My boyfriend and I had been dating a year and a half, and then one day about a week and a half ago he told me that he wanted a "break". I couldn't figure out why until he told me the reason.. He told me that I didn't always treat him the best, and I was rude to him.. I realized that he was right, but I can't understand why I ever did that.. I am usually the nicest person and treat everyone respectfully.. I just made a misteake.. And then yesterday me and him went to the park together and talked just about stuff, and he started kissing me, and he kept doing it.. And telling me that he really loves me..And believes that I have really changed. He also said something liek he wants to live on the beach one day, and he wants me to be there with him when he does..And then I asked him what the problem was and why we can't get back together...Because I know how much he really loves and cares about me..He said he needed a little bit more time, but I am not sure why.

Yesterday was so perfect..I felt liek we were together again..He even said"I feel like myself again, like im normal again" when we were together yesterday..

I am so confused.

Idk what to do..

Help?

Answer 1

SWEETIE, think positive he said break not break up. i was told i broke up with mine. not so. i realized he didn't love me. Im not even mad or sad. i got played. it's "OK" i couldn't trust him as i know all the  woman on and off line he had a thing for. (YOU) ON THE OTHER HAND HAVE GOOD HOPE. YOU ADMITTED YOU WERE DOING THINGS AND BEING RUDE. PLEASE TRY TO STOP. HE LOVES YOU SWEETIE. TREAT HIM GOOD GIVE HIM HIS BREAK. THEN  LIVE YOUR LIVES. HE MAY NEED THE TIME. I HAVE FAITH IT WILL WORK. PRAY A LITTLE PRAYER FOR YOU.XOXO .THANK YOU.

Answer 2

just wait for him to come around to you. he obviously just needs a little time to think things out. but dont take that as a no, because he said he still loves you, thats why he is trying to keep you on a tight leash (just an example) just wait for things to happen. they will happen.

Answer 3

I think the first thing you should do is to look at why you are or were being mean and rude to him. Then you need to ask yourself if this is a relationship that you want to continue. Guys can be very confusing to us girls just as much as we are confusing to them. When he said that he felt like his self again, like he's normal again, it makes me wonder if maybe he has some depression going on. Depression can be crippling. Just keep the lines of communication going as much as you can. Be honest with yourself and him. Pray if that is something that you do. God has all the answers.  

Answer 4

go slow and let things develop on their own  

Answer 5

so...a break is different than a break up...i think you guys will be fine...especially if u're still talking and hanging out....he just needed to be sure he comminicated how he felt...and if u too keep doing that, then u can work anything out. =)!

Answer 6

Give him the time that he needs and you do whatever you want and enjoy your self.

Answer 7

Give him to time to get himself together and you get yourself together a break and a break up are totally different and most of the time breaks actually help the relationship