Boyfriend death.........

Question

My boyfriend died over 5 months ago in a car accident. He died from internal bleeding. I still have a hard time dealing with this because not only was he my bf, he was my childhood friend. We were best friends literally since our diaper days and then went out, (only two months before his death.) I feel like a part of me is gone but i'm only 14 and don't think I know exactly what love is, but i do. What can I do to make all the pain go away?

Answer 1

i am sorry for you. they say time heals all wounds, and in the case of a young person dying, it is true, although you may not notice it the only thing that will heal you is living your life,like i am sure he would want you to do. time will make the pain more bearable. best of luck to you.

Answer 2

WELL STUFF LIKE DAT U CANT FORGET SO UHMM IDK =] IM SORRY

Answer 3

pray for him every once in a while.  But dont dwell in the past.  Move on.  find someone new, because it is a waste of time to be sad about something you cannot change.  Im not saying just forget about him but you have to have your own life and be happy.

Answer 4

aww im SO sorry, its hard enough losing anyone we love, esp someone so young with still so much to do in life. My cousin died in his teens in a car accident, very similar to what you describe. It was horrible, and i still think about him to this day 6yrs later. The pain will never go away, but in time it will lessen a whole lot. I still get that stomach sinking pain everytime i think of him and i dont forget anything more about him as days pass by. The only advice i can give you is, dont think of his death, think of his life and how he changed everything for you. Maybe in a way, his death was a gift to many, to realize that life is short and dont take those you love for granted. Im sure it was a wake up call to most parents of kids that were his friends/relatives, as well as those closest to him. He may have saved many relationships and made others much stronger. You may have lost your friend physically, but he will NEVER be gone in your heart.  <3

Answer 5

only time can just think about the wonderful times u spent went him im so sorry to hear this u  take care of your self

Answer 6

Time heals all.  Just try to remember him fondly and celebrate within yourself the fact that you knew someone so special to you.  Let go of the grief, but hold on to the friendship and fondness you feel.  That's what I have done with my mother (who died about 10 years ago).  It still feels sad, but I hold on to the fondness (her love for me, sweetness, good memories, etc).  Unfortunately we live in a world where people can exit expectantly, go before their time, accidents, cancer, etc.  None of us really know how long we got, or how long our friends, family, and loved ones have.  Enjoy the people close to you and never take them for granted and never take your own life for granted.  Death can be a very painful thing to take, for some people it's harder than others.  So like I said, let go of the pain the best way possible but hold to the fondness you feel for him in your heart.  When a person is gone, what we have left of them is what stays in our hearts.  And it doesn't have to be a sad thing forever!