Boyfriend decided to go to a different college and wants a break, i love him still? Guys, I got a Q for you 2?

Question

Me and my boyfriend have been going out since the 8th grade, now 4 years later and graduated from high school we are talking about college. Suddenly, he decided(or he says he has been thinking about it a lot) that he wants to do the college experience alone and to break up once one of us goes off to college. We have been talking pretty constantly about it, me telling him i love him and I had planned on marriage and children after college with him. He says he still loves me, and he hates to see me hurting but he feels like he needs to be selfish and do this himself. I even offered for us to just try and get back together after college, not break up but not see other people, but he wants it permanently. Its going to be about another year or so before either of us gets enough money to afford college and we have agreed to date until then, but its really hard to know that the person I had planned on spending the rest of my life with is leaving in about a year.

Also, this is gonna sound egocentric, but i think knowing that I am not such a misfit and that their is a chance that someone else at the college I want to go to would go out with me would help. So I am including a short BIO of me, and along with helping me with my problem if any guys out their that are under 28 could say if they would go out with a person like me.

I am a bit of a tomboy in personality, I will make dirty jokes and will do guys things when prompted. I am EXTREMELY dedicated, and I am the type of girl who when her boyfriend calls and cancels our plans to go out to dinner to hang with his friends I say "fine, lets reschedule"

I love animals(reptiles), video games, computers, and just hanging out. I am very laid back and not comfortable going out dancing, but would instead prefer going to a concert and coming back to watch movies.

I am also a complete Nymphomaniac, if I had the choice I would have s*x at least 3-5 times daily, and I can't think of a time I am not in the mood.

Some negative points are that I am still unsure of myself around people, so I like to have people I know order for me at restaurants and make my phone calls to the doctor asking questions.

But besides that, i like to know my man is happy and free.

So what do y'all think? What should i do with my current and do you think I would ever have a chance at college to get another boyfriend(or at least a rebound)?

Answer 1

your question itself tells you answers that your boyfriend is bored with you and want to hangout with new college baby doll type of girl you stink in his opinion.now coming to your point you have decided and given out your bio here hope you will get a better boyfriend who is intelligent,rich and handsome most importantly never gets bore of you and love you for a life time

                       goodluck

Answer 2

Honey, I guarantee you that you will find other guys at college to date, fall in love with, and have relationships with.  No matter what you are like, there is always someone out there who is interested in dating you (whether or not you are interested in dating them is a different question).  I promise you, you will love again.

Yes, it sucks that you have to break up, but this happens to a lot of couples.  It can actually be a good thing - it gives you a chance to grow, to experiment, to experience new people and new things.  It's good he knows himself well enough to know what he wants and be honest with you.  Wish him well, stay friendly with him, but don't torture yourself by trying to transform instantly from romantic lovers to platonic friends - give yourself some time to heal and adjust.  Stay focused on the future, not the past, and move on.