My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. We live together and I have 2 kids. (He is wonderful to them!) We don't have any real ongoing problems. Things are good. We love each other very much, and we both need each other. We hold each other together, and alone we'd each be a wreck. We need to move out of our tiny apartment badly. He agrees that we need to move. I am 30 something, and I think we should buy a house, especially because I have 2 kids, and that's what people with kids should do. Not to mention I am tired of pissing money away on rent, and that the housing market is all for buyers right now. He wants no part of buying a house. I am trying to bite my tounge and respect his wishes for renting a house instead. But I am torn apart here because he can't commit to anything (I told him just that last night)....won't buy house, or get married, no baby, wouldn't even co-sign for me to finance a $5K car with 3K in the bank. Am I just selfish?
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