Boyfriend or biology?

Question

okayy. going to be a freshmen in two days. please tell me what high school is about, relationships or academics? fun or romance? i really wanna get into a good college. but i'm fourteen. and haven't had a boyfriend yet. and i really want one. i'm ready to have one. i think i can deal with it.

please give me your thoughts.

Answer 1

High school should be about inventing yourself and keeping your eyes on the future. Make school & fun your first priorities, keep your good friendships going, make new ones, and then worry about a relationship. It's good to date in high school so you learn basic things about dating and your likes and dislikes. Don't chase after boys that aren't interested, just move on to ones that are. But when you're in class, dont always sacrifice school work for socializing (occasionally its okay tho).  

Answer 2

High school is all about learning to balance your time properly, homework that must be done, extracirricular activities, boyfriends and whatnot. It's learning how to handle all the c**p life will throw at you, and making mature, rational decisions, like not getting pregnant until you are at least a graduate. It's how to stand up to peer pressure and do the right thing.

Good lucK!

Answer 3

focuz on ur academics but luv comes too

Answer 4

when you get into high school and you get a guy that likes you and asks you out just save time for your studies.  

Answer 5

It's supposed to be for academics, but normally ends up about romance. Trust me having a boyfriend isnt that special, after you break up its really akward and you regret a lot of stuff like i am. If you want to get into a good college focus on learning.

Answer 6

what does one have to do with the other?

Answer 7

high school is a mix of all that stuff but as a high school student i would suggest you focus on your education. Relationships are good to just don't go with someone that will make you get bad grades and goof off @ school. you can have fun but just remember that there is a time and place for it.^^

Answer 8

If u want to get to a good college in the future then make sure that's ur main focus. If along the way u start liking a guy or dating someone just make sure u don't foreget about the rest of your life like school, sports, and friends. Cuz relationships don't always last forever. And don't worry if u don't get a boyfriend right away, I didn't get one till the end of freshman year. And also don't just say yes to a guy because u want to be in a relationship, make sure u actually like him first. Good luck, and don't worry. High school really isn't that scary!