(Boy)friend problems, bad experience!!!?

Question

this guy and i hav been not exactly seeing eachother but hooking up at randum parties. and about a week or so ago, i was reli upset and ddnt want to go to a party but he begged me and begged me to, so i did. tht nyt i was half asleep and i woke up to him having intercourse with me. it was really painful and hurt me physically and mentally, especially because i felt like i couldnt say no after waking up to tht. i havent wanted anything to do with him ever since and he keeps acting like everythings fine, but it really hurt me.

i gave up my two BESTfriends and my PARENTS trust for him and he just completely screwed me over.

it is really distracting bcoz i reli do think about it alot. he wudnt even ask me out or ANYTHING like tht, i feel like he just used me and reli only invites me places when he wants something.

anyone know anything i can do to get over it? or something, tht will help?

Answer 1

he raped you, you cannot get over it! you need to go to the police, as hard as it sounds, he really needs to know he was in the wrong & needs to be punished.  

Answer 2

get over it hun

Answer 3

He has had sexual intercourse without your consent.  That is nothing but being raped.  So, go to the police and lodge a complaint.  

Next, you should be going for a checkup with your gynecologist.  If there is something wrong, then you need to seek alternatives to get it corrected.

Forgetting this incident isn't easy at all.  You need to confide this with your closest people - family and friends.

Start thinking of the happy moments you had in your life and try to re-live them or if you can recreate them, do so.  That way, it will ease the pain on your heart.

Finally, be really careful when boys ask you out at parties and stuff.  That way, you will be able to prevent such incidents in the future.

Hope this has helped you.  If you need more information, get in touch with me.

Take care.   Have a nice day.

Answer 4

first of all tell this lissa girl to stfu.  shes not helping.

secondly, you should talk to him and ask him wtf he was thinking.  i mean he raped you.  you shouldnt be trying to get over it, you should try to do something about it.  i know you probably dont want to, but you should really tell someone.  if not the police then at least a friend or a parent or something.