Boyfriend problems.?

Question

all of my friends have boyfriends and it didnt really bother me before but now that im 15 and i see EVERYONE has one and it makes me feel really depressed and sad and that ill never get one. i know you shouldnt rush it but im afraid ill never get one and be a cat lady lol. idk i just either want to know what i should do or what im doing wrong or idk.

heres what i look like:

and if you dnt have anything to help me then dnt awnser please :)

http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=im12k4&s=4

Answer 1

You're right.  YOu shouldn't rush in because only fools rush in.  Just be yourself.  You'll find someone out there for you.  It just takes time.  Someone may be crushing on you right now and you just don't know it.

Answer 2

Just because all your friends have boyfriends, doesnt mean that they are in good relationships.  The outer appearance sometimes doesnt reflect the internal pain.   Your only 15 anyway, you have so much ahead of you.  Dont worry about having a boyfriend, just focus on school and graduate.  Believe me the boyfriends will come and probably go..  Enjoy your youth..

Answer 3

i dunno how much help this is

but you really just gotta wait til the right guy comes along

i know exactly how you feel , but there isn't really anything you can do . don't rush it or you could end up with the wrong guy . you're really pretty so i'm sure you'll have no problems when the time comes(:  

Answer 4

well i think you should just hang out like its not a big deal, but if it becomes a really big deal to you, then find a guy that you really have and intrest and doesnt have a girlfriend and just start talking really nice and maybe something will happen, well thats what i do, so yea good luck

Answer 5

dont worry if you dont have a boyfriend right now. would you rather have one long lasting meaningful relationship or many short ones that will just leave you crying in your room. besides if you actually meet the right guy when your older and you tell him that you never had a boyfriend before it will make if feel special that you waited for him. besides if you dont have a boyfriend that will distract you from school work then it will benefit you in the future.

just wait....and one day he will come and save you from the horrible house of cats.

Answer 6

You can't get a boyfriend?! But you're so pretty :) Well it all depends what kind of guys you seem to be going for. Just take it slow, I'm sure you'll find an amazing guy in a matter of time.

good luck :)

Answer 7

Dont worry girl I feel the same way sometimes. But then i realize that the right guy just hasnt came along yet and when he does it will work out. I mean you dont want to waste your time on someone who its not gonna work out with anyways. : ) good luck

~Marie~

Answer 8

why are you tripping? you are 15 years old. ENJOY being single. ENJOY developing into you.

seriously, if you rush into a relationship you can miss alot of great memories.

when i was in highschool i dated one guy for over 2 years. there are alot of memories i missed out on because i was so wrapped up in a relationship. those can come much later. right now, enjoy hanging out and developing you.

and besides, being the single friend lets you do things like flirt and kiss random boys:P

ENJOY! ENJOY! ENJOY!!!!!!!!

Answer 9

i promise a guy will like u. theres always a guy who thinks ur hot. im 15 and just got a boyfriend on my birthday but i totaly get ur situation last fall i rushed into a relationship that i ended after like 1 day and nobody will forget. It didnt help that he got sent to alternative school for selling his grandfathers pills last spring. Youll find the right guy

Answer 10

Okay what you really want is like a male friend. You can just have a really cool male friend. No strings. No emotion between the two of you. Guess what this makes other guys notice you. But first lets think about what you are offering to this boyfriend . No goodies I hope. The thing is you don't know what all of your friends are doing with their boy toys. So don't be in such a rush to be the first to get dumped. Because that S#%t hurts more.

Answer 11

Don't worry about it. The right guy will definitely come along sometime in your life, and you'll get the happily ever after that you've always dreamed of.

Besides, even if your friends have boyfriends now, do you really think it's going to last? It's probably won't, since you're only fifteen.

I think you're in love with the idea of falling in love, and there's nothing wrong with that. (Because if there was, then every girl would have a problem.) Just be patient like Cinderella was, and wait until you Prince Charming comes and sweeps you off your feet.

Answer 12

I wouldn't worry about it. Try doing things that get you with boys like cheerleading or try out for a coed sport

Answer 13

well your not fat so you can pretty much get any guy.

guys are really shy so just try to make the moves first, or at least hint at them.

go to the mall and tell some random guy hes hot.

guys are really easy to get.

Answer 14

I've only ever had 1 boyfriend really and well we dated off and on...I didn't think I was ever going to get a boyfriend either...but we hit it off great and I was like 17/18 when I got my first REAL kiss and everything...but now I'm 23 and no boyfriend...just keep hoping and flirt with guys...also join groups to get out there. I have a crush on this guy at work...lol but uh that's a different story!  

Answer 15

well that picture doesn't really do justice to how u may look like..and i didn't want to browse further...

LOL i know how it feels to be the "odd one out" and thinking u the slowest of them all..but i think sometimes we get the best bunch..

so try and stop feeling depressed because soon people will be able to tell in ur manner..instead do something to fill ur time and take ur concentration off all of that..its said that if u busy and active that is an attractive quality

Answer 16

don't stress it! practically every teen girl goes through this at one point or another! i was in that situation last year. all my friends were in relationships and i was the only one who wasn't. i continued trying to find a guy to date without just letting everything fall into place. i found a great guy only when i stopped searching for him. just sit back, enjoy being single while you are, and let things fall into place. your time will come! just wait (: