Boyfriend question.answers appreciated...?

Question

i moved into a new hpuse with my boyfriend and he never spends enough time with me. he works all day and when he comes home he has his dinner and is literally gone out the door then to play soccar or gym. how can i get him to spend more time with me?. i hate being left alone in the house esp as we are only after moving in.

Answer 1

hiya josie,sit him down and talk to him, telling how you are upset and lonely.maybe if you started going with him to the gym,that can be fun.you need to sort it out now, before you get in a rut.then your relationship will break down.ask him to spends days in with you.just sit and talk. wish you happiness and lots of luck/love in your new home.x*x

Answer 2

Tell him.  Tell him how you're feeling neglected, and that you're worried that over time his constant social life will kill your relationship.  Both of you work out a schedule, and make sure to have AT LEAST 1-2 nights per week that is "date night".  If he won't agree to this, you'll pretty much know that he's not willing to work at the relationship...then you'll have a big decision to make.  I'm really hoping he does want to work at it though.  Give it a try....sometimes guys just need a direct shot to the head to make them realize LOL.  Much luck!

Answer 3

You should have thought of that before moving in with him.

If he cares for you so little, move out and on.

Answer 4

open your mouth and talk its not so hard

Answer 5

i think you should just sit him down and talk to him and tell him about how you feel and if he doesnt listen then s***w him lol  

Answer 6

I have to be blunt as I'm married to a man just like this.  Tell him that you associate being loved with his spending time with you.  He can say I love you, he can buy you things, whatever, if that is not how you FEEL loved, it doesn't work.  Give him a chance to set aside time for you, but if he doesn't, see it for what it is.  He's telling you this is what life is going to be like and many couples are happy this way.  If you're not, you'll have to move on.  It's not always a question of love.

Answer 7

tell him how you're feeling - he does sound a bit selfish to be leaving you all the time.

Failing that ...... entice him to stay home with you! Wear something s**y for when he gets home from work...that kinda thing

xx

Answer 8

talk to him about it, go to the gym with him or wherever he goes.