Boyfriend... too good to be true?

Question

so i have a boyfriend, and hes a senior, and im a sophomore.

weve talked about the future, and decided to be with eachother forever. i mean, weve cried over the phone, because we both dont want to lose eachother. we even planned how things are gonna be when he goes off for college, and how were gonna go to college together. but im thinking that its really a whole lot of pressure for me to carry around highschool. you know? jus wanting to graduate so bad to be with that person and start a new beginning with them.

and i feel that he may be the one. were both firsts for this, because weve never really felt this deeply in love for someone. he treats me right, and always makes me smile. we ask eachother deep questions, like would you ever cheat on me? will you wait for me? things like that. but i do have doubts about the future and if he'll stay true... T_T.. but we told eachother to cherish the moments while we can... :)

Answer 1

That sounds just like me and my bf. We've been going out for 3yrs now. I'm not sure what your question is, but it seems like your relationship is pretty good. It's ok to feel a little worried about the future, but don't worry too much about it right now because you're still in high school. Good luck!

Answer 2

Don't go creating problems, because real ones will find you on their own.  Enjoy the time that you have together and take things as they go.  There is no guarantee that your relationship will be permanent, but right now he has not given you any reason to doubt him.  If you are really serious about each other, could he go to a local community college for your remaining years in high school and then transfer to the same university as you?  It will help with the cost of college, and, if he keeps up with his studies, any school that would take him in the fall will take him in 2 years.