Boyfriend trouble...

Question

My boyfriend and I have a daughter together. He has one with another woman too. and they are pretty close in age. Well, i didn't know the woman had his cell number. Tonight he told me he got a text from her. And i said how did she get your number? And he was like you knew she had this number and blah blah blah...no i didnt! anyways, i ask what she said and all and he told me what she said then got mad at me because i asked how she got his number. He said she's got my child! And now i'm extremely nauseated. I have cold chills and the shiveries. I feel kind of like he was defending her in a way, and it hurts because i've been feeling this way about all his family and friends. It was like he and i have a child together and so do they and i'm not to be included (i've never met her). Its like they have a bond, but its the same bond that he and i have. i know we're together and they aren't but still. Has anyone ever gone through this and am i in the wrong in anyway?

Answer 1

Ive had that- WORST FEELING EVER- Right?

Well... Im gonna be truthful... I got someone to spy on him.

And when I  got the result and saw the film I dumped him.

Im NOT telling you to do that!

Good luck babes

x

Answer 2

yes it hurts but think about it for a sec.

do you trust him?

u cant B***h about her calling him, they got a kid 2gether and that baby needs his /her daddy.

if u guys were to brake up and some chick is getting pissed cuz ur calling, how would u feel.

thats messed up.

she will always be a part of his life theres nothing u can do about it, the same way you'll always be a part of his life, the only difference is he's sharing his life with u.

and maybe u should meet her, theres nothing wrong with meeting her.

if he has nothing to hide he wont hide anything!

u can't act like that.... its not right!

u knew getting with him that he had a baby.

u made the choice to still get involved, and u took the baggages that came with him.

ur not less important then her... if anything ur more important ur sharing ur life with him, she just shares a kid with him. ( the kid is the important part in this, not her!)

good luck.

Answer 3

you better get over it. he has a child with this woman and she will be in his life for the rest of his life.

if you don't like it it is just too bad, if you keep complaining you will wind up loosing in the end!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

Go with your gut instinct, it is usually right.  If you feel something is wrong with the way he acts towards her, then it probably is.  Look at it this way:  do you want to spend the rest of your life feeling this way?  if the answer is no, then get out.  If the answer is yes, then stay were you are but beware of what these kind of feelings will do to you in the long run.