Boyfriend working late hours?

Question

my boyfriend never did anything romantic for me and that we are in the relationship for 2 years, lately my boyfriend is working alot of late hours and weekend, do you think that he is cheating. i trust him.

Answer 1

If you trust him then why are asking us if we think he is cheating. If he is really working those later hours, he'll have a bigger pay check than normal.  

Answer 2

Firstly, you posted this is in the wrong section.  There are legitimate reasons why he might be working late hours and the weekend.  Does he appear tired as if he's been working a lot and does it seem like his income has gone up?   You need to look for consistencies or inconsistencies in his story.  Trusting him and questioning him doesn't seem entirely compatible.  A complete lack of romance isn't a good sign, I know that much.

Answer 3

Ask him, see how he reacts, and go from there.

Answer 4

You don't trust him! if you did, you wouldn't be questioning him cheating on you....

So don't try to fool yourself into thinking you trust him....ask him straight out. Communication is the key to a good relationship.

Answer 5

Wait.....you trust him, but you're asking a group of total strangers if working late hours means he's two-timing you? That makes no sense.

You obviously don't trust him. No trust, no love, no relationship. Get out, for both your sakes.

Answer 6

talk to him about it.

and if you don't trust him

and you don't seem happy why stay in the relationship?

before you speak to him,

as yourself if it's even worth it.

and remember that just because you were in a relationship for two years, doesn't mean theres love.

Answer 7

I do believe you are in the wrong section. And yes he could be cheating or Here's an idea he's working.   And if you  have to ask then you don't trust.

Answer 8

trust means you dont question if they are cheating

Answer 9

I think he's pregnant.

Answer 10

Post this in the relationship section not pregnancy.

Answer 11

this is the pregnancy section...not the "is my boyfriend cheating on me" section...

no but honestly, do you trust him? If you do trust him then there should be nothing to worry about. But, If you can't trust him then you shouldnt be with him in the first place. You should be with someone who wants to be with you, that does things for you because they love you, not because they have to. And most importantly-you need to trust them, as well as they trust you.

If you're concerned, just be honest with him, that's the best way to deal with anything really. But if you want to go the sneaky way, call up his work and ask for him when you think he may be with another girl, that is if he works somewhere that has a direct number. Or you can pretend that you saw him with a girl or that someone told you all about it...be like "oh my god, i can't believe you, i know all about it.....blah blah blah"...make up some story..or be like, "who was that other girl you were with and why were you with her when you said you were at work?"...see if he slips up and you can catch him in the lie...it may work, you never know!

good luck!

Answer 12

Why is this in the pregnancy section???

Answer 13

HE is cheatign on you, I hate to be blunt about it but that would be my guess.  The only way you can be sure is if he is complaining about having so many extra hours.  

COnfront him without accusing him,  ask him to take some time off to spend time with you