Boyfriends mom a horrible druggie?

Question

my boyfriends mom is addicted to pills and its getting worse and wrose. me and him have been together for almost a year and i now live with him so we can save money to get a house. from what i understand she has been to rehab like 3 times in the past year or two and obviously it is not helping. you can really tell when she is screwed up and when she is not. when shes not she is really nice and when she is she tells my boyfriend what a piece of **** he is and how his brother is so much better than him. its so bad that she was ****** up last month while his brothers girl was in the hospital having her baby and she was mad and crieing because they would not let her in the room while she was havin the baby. the other day she just started bitching at my bf for no reason and you can just tell something is not right. last night his dad told him that he wanted to move out and get his own apartment because he is tired of her and bla bla bla...supposeively this happens all the time and he ends up changing his mind....today he told me and my boyfriend that we had to move out because she says that me and him are making her ****** up and doing pills and stuff......we dont have the money to move out right away its going to take a couple weeks.....what should i do....we try to avoid her but she texts and calls all the time and there is no way to ignore her. its stressing me out really bad and i have actually been scared that she is going to hurt one of us. we stay in his room all the time but she still finds a reason to say we drive her to this.....his dad says that after we move out if she does this again that he really is going to leave her but neither of us believe it. everyone in her family knows she is like this but they wont do anything. they always go to her husband and her kids to blame them. she was so screwed up one time that she ran into our brand new truck and she blamed it on us because of where we parked....what should i do....im actually scared for my life but i dont want to do anything that is going to make anyone in his family mad at me.....she is crazy scary.....

Answer 1

You sure you want to end up part of this womans family someday? Keep dating her son, and eventually she'll be your monster-in-law, then your REALLY stuck with her for good.  

Answer 2

That family is crazy lock em' all up

Answer 3

First off WOW! I would say that you too should see if you can get some kinda of assistance to go ahead and may be get any apartment for right now just so you have your own space and don't have to put up with that at least not at home. Because I am pretty sure you will still have to deal with her but it seems like there isn't much you can do for her but try that and keep your head up and pray that nothing happens to you guys I really do wish you the best because I am kinda in  the same predicament.