Boys and husbands please answer?!?

Question

How important do you think trust is in a relationship?!

And,would you have married your wife if everything with her was perfect,you loved each other and got along together,but she was ABSOLUTELY jealous and controlling?!!!

Thank you!

Answer 1

ABSOLUTELY jealous and controlling?!!!

No not at all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And why are you asking "BOYS" a man question??

Answer 2

its hard because not only de u have to feel that u can trust the other person but u need to know the other person trusts u

its very hard to be in a relationship in which u are constantly being controlled and checked up on

if you dont trust someone then u dont know them and if you dont know them then u cant possibly love them

so no

Answer 3

nope not important at all...because all men should know by now that ALL women are untrustworthy.

here is the rule for all men... NEVER ever NEVER ever trust a woman... (Women will sell you off for anything. money, food, lust, pleasure, joy, anything anything at all. Women have one objective in liking a man... their offspring)

here is the rule for all women... NEVER ever NEVER ever love/date/marry a man who you "Think" is hot/s**y/sweet/kind. (seriously... If he can make you think that way there are endless possibilities he can do behind your back)

Answer 4

trust is at the forefront of a relationship, but jealousy or "controlling" can be there even when trust is because of the past, and with both parties. the real matter is can the two cope with it and make a relationship work. both my girlfriend and i have had rough histories and have trust issues but we make it work and we have grown a lot just by talking to each other about it. so yes, i would marry her.

Answer 5

A relationship can and will NOT work if there is NO trust involved. I would not marry someone that was controlling and jealous. I dated a man for 2 1/2 years too long who was just like that. I felt like I was walking on egg shells every time we were together. This man stole money from me he beat me and told me that I was sleeping with every man out there. He made my self esteem go down. I felt worthless. He played mental games with me all the time. He offered to pay everything as long as I stayed at the house 24/7. He wouldn't let me have any friends nothing. Finally I left this jerk. It took forever to get the balls to do it. He has scared me for life. My new relationships are nothing like they use to be before him. I'm starting to question my boyfriends behavior. This X of mine made me not trust anyone.

What you are doing to your husband will come around some day to you. He will end up hating you and want nothing to do with you. If he were smart he would leave you. He would suggest that you get serious help (therapy) For "Your" underlying issues with trust. You need to change your ways. You are scaring your love, husband the  person you took vow es with. You need help!

Answer 6

16 years ago, if I was ever that way, he never would have married me.

And if he was that way, I never would have married him.

Easy as that, I knew what and who and what kind of person I wanted to marry and I would not settle for less and I did not!!!!

I stood strong and tall, and finally met the man of my dreams!!!

No one is perfect, I know that, but if you do not like the jealous and controlling type, then get out.

Easy as that.

JMO and only JMO.

Answer 7

no if she was jealous and controlling and couldn't change her ways i wouldn't SURELY I WOUIDNT

Answer 8

Trust is the most important issue in a relationship.  You can stay with someone you don't trust, for so many reasons, but your heart takes a beating.  You slowly pull back the love you feel for the person, because you are hurt from being unable to trust them.  Now if you can not trust, it hurts both parties, since it affects the possible growth of the relationship into a truly loving relationship, lopsided ships sink (when only one person can love).  So I guess it all depends with what you can live with and why, it is a personal choice for sure.

Answer 9

Jealous, controlling folks ( spouses as well as others ) are all mental cases who ruin their own lives and those of others too.

Answer 10

I reckon trust is pretty important in a relationship. And if we loved each other, got along together and trusted each other, then it doesn't really matter if she's jealous and controlling.

...or you can just say that I'm not a very dominant guy who doesn't really mind the whole controlling thing.

Answer 11

no if she was jealous and controlling and couldn't change her ways i wouldn't

Answer 12

Trust is earned not granted. If the male partner can  assured their girl/woman that he is trustworthy, i am sure any women will feel that is  safe for him to go anywhere because finally he will come back and love us. The issue is thicken if the woman doesnt feel that she is convinced enough that their boyfriend/husband loves them as much as they do..and can always cheat or flirt behind their back. The woman get jealous and controlling because the men doesnt know his role in the relationship which is staying true and be seen as true. Isnt jealousy and controlling is the sign of love..part and parcle of relationship. if they isnt..it means the woman dont care enough for u as their bf/husband..Unless if the woman get overly jealousy and overly controlling until so difficult to breath then u have to reconsider your relationship.

I trust and never question my husband everywhere he goes. Never asked where he gone when he home at 3am...(becoz he has low s*x drive-i know)..but i was wrong..i received a call from one of his colleague that he had an affair and slept with that woman...Then is a bit of jealousy and controlling is a must sometimes..especially if u have family and kids..