Boys i need opinions please?

Question

My friend has only kissed two or three girls and he'd been dating them at the time (he's extremely shy). Last night, we were flirting a little and he kissed me! We were drunk, which is sort of new to both of us. I know that even though I'd been drinking, I made the decision to kiss him back and I enjoyed it. I don't what he thinks about the situation though, because we just became friends and don't talk much otherwise. My point is - did it mean nothing, am I being dumb? We hung out tonight (sober) and I was too scared to say anything, and he didnt say anything either. Do you think I should just forget it? I want to kiss him again. Really badly. I havent had a crush like this in years! What do you think I should do, just forget about it? Do you think he even cares?

Answer 1

it depends on your feelings for him

Answer 2

Apparently no one cares....

Answer 3

just ask him straight up if he wants you to suck his d**k and then if he says no then just forget about him and have s*x with some hoe down the street

Answer 4

kiss him if you like

Answer 5

when i got drunk, my feelings about a girl come out unwillingly, and yes he probably cares, go for it, whats the worse that can happen if he rejects you, theres always more people you can get

Answer 6

don't drink

Answer 7

your in love. thats what i see from reading this. tell him that you love him. and see where it goes from there. i'm having a little love trouble myself. i cant seem to tell this girl that i love her. but i will. i have to.

Answer 8

i think you should just bring up..

find what he thinks about the situation..

because maybe he feels the same way too!

Answer 9

Talk to him about him if he is your good friend. I mean, if you're just looking for a little action and he's just looking for a little action and you guys become the kind of friends who do that sometimes it could hurt your relationship when you find another guy that you do want to date or when he finds a girl that he wants to date because even just through kissing you may find that feelings start to develop between you two. So be careful, but clearly you know what you really want to do, why cheat yourself from it? You only live once.

Answer 10

You like this guy. If your considering forgeting about it I think your being a bit hypocritical how you talk about him, just go for it. Why the h**l not. Quiet guys are normally good guys, so better him than some cocky p**ck that will treat you like dirt. Just don't be over clingy. It'll proberbly worry him, if he's had no other previous relationships the chances are he doesn't realise that hes got anything to offer a girl.

Good luck anyway sweetie.

Answer 11

2 points.

Answer 12

if he tried to kiss you he likes you a little bit (drunk or sober) so try and make another move, good luck

Answer 13

well the only thing you can do is talk to him about it and ask how he felt about it and if he actually cares for you

Answer 14

it means he thinks your cute. Isn't necessarily in love or anything though

Go for it

Answer 15

Just enjoy his company. If it's meant to be it will happen again in time. The better friend you are now will determine your relationship later anyway. If he continues to flirt then flirt back, if not you will know.

You could even say to him what was that kiss all about anyway. He may be wondering too.

Good Luck!

Answer 16

Drunk actions are sober thoughts.

its probly ocwored for him as much as it is for you

If you want to date him make the "2nd" move like you said he is shy

trust me though he probly hasn't forgotten it and is freaking out too.

good luck

Answer 17

An extremely shy guy will never kiss a girl. You for fooling around.

Answer 18

ask him to kiss you? =P i dono what to say since i nevva ben drunk  

Answer 19

if he is shy than he is not going to make the first move

Answer 20

man if i had the chance to kiss or date my female friend of 13 years, and knew she would be upset, I WOULD SOOOO DO IT!!!!

Just talk to him about it!!

if he stops talking to you, then hes not realy a friend!

Answer 21

Ask him out, he is shy so odds are he will need a little help =). Even if you are drunk, stuff you do never meens nothing

Answer 22

even if he was drunk, i'm sure he wanted to kiss you.

so on the next opportunity, since he's shy, i suggest you just go for it.

Answer 23

go for it, from my experiences i am in a much more truthful state while I'm drunk and there had to be a reason besides the alcohol. this is just my opinion.

Answer 24

hmm well my opinion is that he likes u also but just like u he is scared to say anything about it... i am very shy also and i dont like to tell my friends that i like them. So i hope it works out for you and the best of luck! =Þ

Answer 25

Tell him if u like him so much tell him the truth jsut make sure he isnt drunk