Boys: just a small problem I need help with..?

Question

My boyfriend and I had s*x for the first time a few weeks ago, and I'm going over to his tomorrow and its likely we're going to again.. However I'm a bit nervous about it because I know he didn't really enjoy it last time because it was my first time and I was so nervous and didn't really know what I was doing... But this time I want to make it really special for him, any ideas how??

Thanks x

Answer 1

Uhm, just keep practicing ;D lol, you'll get better at it because don't worry the first time is always the worst time.

Answer 2

you can make thing for him special like by saying stuff by the phone that you know make his D!cK tingle and when he gets there try to let him do what he wants on you for the beginning and then you can do a technique that closes the v****a wall smaller by putting your legs together and he lifts your legs and it give more pleasure for both u 2 hope i helped

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Answer 3

Hm...I'd suggest anything with a condom XD.

Well it takes time to get used to it, you're not going to be snap great since you did it already. You have to find out what he likes and what he wants. It takes time.

Answer 4

wear s**y under wear or use whipped cream.

Answer 5

Theres a book called Kama Sutra, it tells and shows you everything from love to s*x. You might wanna read it if you want to make it more special for him! Hope that I helped you out some.

Answer 6

it was ur first time? he enjoyed it

just stay relaxed dont tense up

Answer 7

If a guy doesn't feel that you please him then he's not good enough for you. Be with someone you feel comfortable with.

Answer 8

dont worry, just relax and go with the flow!! if you think too much about it you'll only stress and wont enjoy it. if its your first time its gona be c**p but the more you do it the better it gets!! just relax and make sure you're comfortable with it! have fun!

Answer 9

how old r u? are u married?

Answer 10

be yourself, and probably no matter what you do he will probably enjoy it, well unless you act like a statue or something

Answer 11

I understand but I noticed you didn't say anything about YOU enjoying it??  That's really important.  

My first time my boyfriend wasn't terribly happy having to be gentle and stuff, but in hindsight he should have cared a lot about that...or maybe we shouldn't have had s*x!  

To make it special for him, the best thing you can do is make sure you love him and that the s*x is coming from a good place, free of doubts about your relationship, and where you implicitly trust each other.  Make sure you take worries of STDs and pregnancy out of the equation as much as possible.  

Answer 12

here are some tips: dont do it! an egg may be let go and a sperm may be release

Answer 13

You are nasty and the answer is just dont do that you are the nastyest person in the world sicko

Answer 14

I did it too and didn´t enjoyed it the first time.

The second will be good.

Answer 15

well just talk to him about it and reameber be safe make sure he is using a condom and or you should take birth control

Answer 16

Just don't be stingy. Try positions, let him do what he wants. Don't be so nervous, h**l maybe smoke a little bit before you do it. One word of caution is to make sure you stay safe. You don't want to risk getting pregnant?

Answer 17

if you looking for s*x positions look up Karma Sutra

Answer 18

It doesn't sound like you are old enough. if you weren;t ready why did you do it? s*x is something you shouldn't do by pressured to do so

Answer 19

s*x is best enjoyed if girl cooperate. just let him feel that u need it from him. for this pre-play is must but dont be so agressive some guys dont like. first study his mood and then.... but is it ok to have s*x so regular before marriage

Answer 20

yea,wear protection...and dont be so nervous,go with the flow,trust me,he will enjoy it...but are you 18?

Answer 21

just have s*x. its only ur 2nd time. no ned for  a big WOW

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Answer 22

From family and friends I've heard that the majority of times it will be bad. I agree with them, because my first time was also bad for him and me. I was just like you not knowing what to do, because I didn't want him to not enjoy it again. So yeah at the time I worked for Borders(book store). I was reading all sorts of books that would help. Also this embarrassing, but I watched p**n to actually see positions and other stuff that I could use on him. When we met up again I was a nervous mess, but he helped to calm me down and he was the one that took control. In other words we talked after  and he told me that the only reason why he didn't enjoy it was because he didn't want to hurt me. Also I didn't know what I was doing so from that day we decided to tell one another what we wanted and how we wanted things to get done. So we both get the satisfaction of s*x. After a while we didn't need to tell one another we new what the other person wanted already. So just be patient try and talk to him ask him what he wants and how. Get to know one another.

Answer 23

what help do u need  

Answer 24

Just go at your own pace. There is nothing you could have done to make it not enjoyable for him. He should be the one trying to make it better for you.