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Question

ok well i like this guy but he has a gf. i had a crush on him for a bout a year or 2 now and i juz found out he had a gf and ive been talking to him every day(idk how it never came up).well i feel bad talking to him becuz when i had a bf this girl would talk to my bf all the time and i remember how much i was upset so ya i cant talk to him now and not feel bad about it. but hes been textin me every day and i cant talk to him but now i feel bad becuz im egnoring him! wut do i do!!!

plz dont say sumthin bout my spelling!! its text talk!!

Answer 1

Well, from what I understood, he still has a gf, otherwise you wouldn't be upset for talking to him, right? It's actually a good thing that you know what it's like to be the hurt gf in this situation, because you can kinda tell how his gf might feel. I think that it would probably be a good idea to talk to this guy and to tell him that you're not comfortable with him cheating on this girl wiht you (or whatever you want to call it; "talking", "texting", whatever it may be).

Also, if he wants to talk to you and to be your friend, that's his deal, not his gf's. So do yourself a favor and (regardless of your feelings for him) just talk to him like nothing was wrong. Only feel guilty if anything actually happens between you 2 WHILE HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND! You haven't done anything to feel guilty for, so don't...you know, feel guilty about it.

Hope this helps you at all.