Break up help pleasee

Question

i broke up with my bf 3 days ago because of his weed addiction i tried for sooo long to acccept it and i felt like i was giving and giving and he wasnt giving or trying to make it work at all so i broke it off. for both of us it wasnt something we wanted but something we knew had to happen.

we said it will be until he can quit smoking weed. i know its hard and im nbot sure waht to do? whether to just completely stop talkin to him and leave him to realise what hes lost and help me move on and if he does quit well its good or should i try to be his friend still and hope he does quit but if he doesnt i will be soo hurt.

like i love him more than anything and he loves me too but its just something love cant fix and we fight about it all the time

Answer 1

me and my gf both smoke weed but weed isint addictive(i havent smoked since january and i feel fine)if he really wants to be with you....he'd stop

Answer 2

I am sorry you are hurting. As hard as it is to see now, there is no positive that can come from a relationship with someone with an addiction. You must place a higher value on yourself, walk away and don't second guess your decision. Your life will be better in the long run. I am sending up a prayer to help you. Be strong and hang in there.    

Answer 3

if he really likes you he would stop