I'm in a relationship with a single parent, she's very nice, and I do have strong feelings for her; but it's very evident that we just don't have longterm compatibility. I am ten years younger than her, and all we have in common is s*x(very good s*x) and some taste in films.
She wants me to be a figure in her children's lives (girl 9, boy 12, girl 13); I like them, they are unique children, but I am not prepared at my age to be a strong rolemodel for them. I don't think I can do this for her for much longer, and I'm concerned about hurting her kids if they get too attached.
She has also begun to get very needy, I have seen her all but a few nights in the last three weeks, and it doesn't seem to be letting up while she is on leave(at least another month), and she continues asking to see me frequently.
When we're together, at times I feel that she is trying to 'mommy' me, and it makes me very uncomfortable.
So, I want to break things off, or at least back them down significantly. The trouble is, I really do care about her. I simply know that if we try to be too serious for too long, it's going to end badly, I'm beginning to feel very pressured to be somebody that I am not. I want to do this in a way that will spare her feelings as much as possible.
Can I get advice from someone who is a single parent, regarding the gentlest way to do this?
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