Brides, Has your s*x life declined because your getting married?

Question

My hubby to be was my one and only man I have been with but lately do to the stress of the wedding and work, I am never in the mood anymore and lost all interest in romance.

Answer 1

Sometimes you need to spice it up. Go get some toys or some lingerie. Make it fun, and tease each other. Your s*x life will be better in no time.

Answer 2

hehehe you said, you answered ur own question, its all the stress and all, it will be fine when everything settles down and back to normal.  so thats a good lesson learned to remember all through your marriage, if the s*x deminishes, then one of you are stressed about something and its time to talk.

Answer 3

i was still in the mood all the time, but my hubby wasn't.  i think it's normal

Answer 4

I have been engaged for 4 months, we are apart now, but when we see one another, we want to be together.  There is a lot of stress involved with planning a wedding, but you must keep things in perspective and take care of business.  Looking forward to being married to one another has made us become closer.

Answer 5

Same here. but I read once that if you wait until you "in the mood" you'll be waiting FOREVER but if you start you normally will get in the mood and it is well worth it. I found this to be true!

Answer 6

everyone's s*x life declines after marriage with stress and stuff - ups & downs - it's called life.  It will come back again.  And it will go away again, that's marriage... think it's bad now?  Wait till you have kids!

Answer 7

I think the stress of wedding planning and worrying if "you're marrying the right man" can cause anyone to loose interest in s*x.

It's normal. My husband and I stopped having s*x for awhile before our wedding. Just wait for your wedding night, it will make it that much better!

Answer 8

I don't think its any different...but i know what you mean by lost of interest sometimes.  We are planning one of the biggest parties of your life...(my fiftieth would be my second:). lol).  its stressful at times and your mind and body is not in the mood.  Just spice up the bedroom and surprise the h**l out of him, if its been a while:).  At least you know the change of your interest in the romance department...so change it to what you want it to be.  Take that stress in the bedroom and relieve it:).  Good Luck!

Answer 9

Stress is a real downer when it comes to sexual desire......and right now the wedding is all consuming.....

Okay, Dr. Mom's Rx for you is.....select one day (when you don't have to work)...and absolutely NO wedding talk, planning, organizing, yada, yada, yada....for that one day the wedding just doesn't exist......

Make plans for some 'Me' time.....and also some 'We' time.....something that makes you relax and mellow out when you are alone, and when you are with your guy.....a walk, a good long soak, curl up with that book you've been meaning to read....stretch out like a cat, close your eyes and listen to some calming, soothing music....maybe later he can bring home some take-out chinese and a few DVD's....light candles, throw on your 'big @ss robe' (believe me we ALL

have a comfy lounging outfit) curl up on the sofa together with take-out and a few movies...make sure they are s***w ball comedies or happy ever after kind...laughter is healing and a great stress reliever...and if some one calls re: wedding talk have your guy screen all calls and the Mantra is...."She's taking a break from the wedding stress...can she talk to you about it tomorrow?".......

And a one night's indulgence won't hurt you.....what I mean is there is sooo much healing in chocolate...especially if the words ice cream follow the chocolate word.....

Your 'Va-Va-Voom' may not come back full swing but you'll feel better and I guarentee on your Honeymoon you'll wonder why you were every worried lol.....good luck!