Broke up a day before his birthday, ugh !?

Question

Well, my ex boyfriend and I broke up a day before his birthday, not because we wanted to, because we just kept going on and off and it couldn't continue. It was obvious we both started to loose those "special feelings", but I'll ALWAYS care about him. Although I was the one to officially say that we should part and go our seperate ways, I also added that we should be friends :( !

Now it's his birthday and I wished him a happy birthday, tried to start a conversation and everything and all he said was thank you and NOTHING else .. i still wanna be a friend or something in his life. Should I keep trying to force on conversations or WHAT ? :( ugh

Answer 1

Look you sending mix messages,one day you'll quitting the man and next surprise happy Bday.I'm not saying that you shouldn't wish him happy bday.But that man not feeling you right now.No make up your mind you want him in your life or don't.I would give it some time and let him reach out to me.He not feeling you right now Sweetie.

Answer 2

you can't expect him to be too friendly the day after you guys broke up. give him some time

Answer 3

What were you expecting him to say after he told you thank you?  You broke it off with him, to be friends, which is fine but, what do you expect out of him?  

Maybe just give him space, and time.  You called him on his birthday, now just let him contact you.   if he doesnt, so be it. Just go on with your life.  

Answer 4

I think he just might be a little upset.

Give it time, then try again.

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Answer 5

Let him go. Don't force anything. I'm friends with a girl who broke up with me years ago.

Answer 6

well, you broke up with him, He's upset about that

leave him alone for a little bit, than see if it's better

Answer 7

cold blooded.

thats messed

Answer 8

let him get over it. he needs time to adjust. just let him have some space for a while. he'll come around.

Answer 9

ugh I hate that. when you break up with someone and you just don't say I still want to be friends just for the heck of it. you really mean it and you do care about them. I honestly think you should still try to talk to him, even though it may be awkward, if you really care. so. ask him to hang out one day (not now, wait a little while). or study or something together. and you should tell him (well only if you want to) that he is a really good friend to you. hope this helped :b

Answer 10

BADDDDDDDDD GIRLLLLLLL lol

Answer 11

i think that since you were dating he will allways remember that so it will allways be akward

Answer 12

Give him some space.  Break ups are hard.