Broken Hearted Why do guys cheat?

Question

So me and my now ex were dating for 6 months. Everything in my mind was perfect we had fun together, s*x was great, and he even made it seem like he was really into me made me breakfast in bed, helped me paint my apt, watched my son when I wasn't home. But there was one thing that clued me in he wouldn't change his myspace profile to in a relationship. So then girls started leaving him flirty comments so I asked him and he said he flirts but when he is in a relationship there is no one else. So I tested him made a fake profile and he fell right for the bate. Was trying to meet up with her and just trying to play me. Now my heart is broken so I'm just wondering why would he do this I mean he slept over friday night then sat he is trying to get with another girl. There were no problems we were happy. Maybe guys can explain that to me?

Answer 1

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Answer 2

some men just can't be with one person. they're always curious to know what else is out there. sorry hun but you will find someone

Answer 3

Hey SHortie,

Cheer up gal.  Boys are like this.  many are good many are bad.  but when he is an ex then y to bother bot him.  chill out with ur kid.  you will find someone better than him.  and dont be heartbroken.  cheer up babes.  lilfe is too short realise this and try to be happy not for you but atleast for your kid.

Answer 4

1st quit with all the question. 2nd you don't need  to know everything. 3rd when a Man walks in door don't say S**t .get on your knees .put the whole thing in your mouth.   your Mom& Grandma  did it

Answer 5

If he was looking for someone else then there's a problem. You really need to talk to him. Maybe he's afraid to commit to you and doesn't know how to tell you. Good luck.

Answer 6

if he is a cheat, jst forget him and move on in life.

he deserves the worst and u the best.

so don't worry. be happy.

Answer 7

Some guys just have no control,

Sorry to hear about your relationship.

NEVER blame yourself.

Move on......

Answer 8

i msorry from hearing that , most of men want to have all girls ( it just to have fun with) but every man has one woman in his heart who he know she is the best and he may cheat her as what happened to u but if he search all over the world he will not find anyone who can displace her in his heart. i want u to continue the trick with him and made him meet u as another girl (one of your friend) and see where he will reach in his relationship with her.

Answer 9

I hate to say it sweetheart but some guys are just dogs.

Next time you have a hunch or an inkling (like the not changing his status thing) call him out on it, and insist he do it.

Tell him sometimes a woman needs a little reassurance, and is it such a big deal to admit you are in a relationship.

If it is - he is probably hiding something.

Answer 10

IM SORRY this happened to you, but hey at least YOU FOUND OUT, the truth.

You set up the trap and he fell in it.

I did the exact same thing once, and he was also planning on meeting her.

Well when i told him about it, he no longer accepts ppl he doesnt know as friends.

he's a loser!

and so is your EX.

just let him go, he wasnt NO GOOD for you.

You deserve soo much better.

no one knows why men cheat,

women cheat too.

its just a problem that they have, sometimes its not even a problem to them, but it is unfair to the innocent person such as ourselves who develop feelings.

but it happens, itslife,

we must always learn from it though,.

keep yoru head up,

no matter what you do, DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK!!!

Answer 11

same reason women cheat, selfishness and a complete lack of character or regard for anyone else in their life

Answer 12

if he is like that, he doesnt deserve not just u, bt any serious relationship  

Answer 13

Well hes not worth your time. I would never cheat on a women. Thats just messed up. As I read the same question just like this I think "Girls date guys who cheat because there ussaully the good looking guys. Girls dont want the ugly guys that have a heart and wont cheat because there shallow. He never loved you hes just using you." Whatever.

Answer 14

Men are born ba$tards....some are just a little better at keepin it on the low then others. When you find the right one, make sure you know the b*****d within before you get sexual.