Broken court order advice plz also residency order..?

Question

ok basically here goes, i have been to court originally and my partner was given contact rights for every other weekend sat to sun. he has yet again broken the court order by saying he is not going to return her, i have been to my solicitors and we are meant to be going to court tomorrow afternoon, but my ex is applying for residency order because of my supposed recent behaviour (i went to my friends house a few times who he had been in a relationship with previously and it went very wrong, this is the only behaviour i can think of as I'm always at home being a mum to my children) i was just wondering if anyone has any experience of this happening to them. My daughter has lived with me for all her life I have brought her up single hand-idly with no help from her father who also has been involved with drugs, he also lives with his uncle. there are alot of other things as well. Whereas my daughter lives with my self her sister and my partner has a brilliant school and is very happy with me. I shouldn't be worrying about it just would like to hear from you about any experiences thank you

Answer 1

This will be entirely up to the courts to handle. They can act differently depending on what they find. If he is threatening to keep the child against the current order and filled a appeal then the courts will look at evidence for this. If there is no evidence not much will happen. With evidence something might happen. The courts can choose many actions at their disposal to make sure the child does not come to harm. If you have not done anything against the current order or not in a position where the child can be harmed in any way then the court will stay in favour of you.

Answer 2

i dont think you have anything to worry about especially concerning the residence order,the only reason he is going for that is to try and get some rights he has none as your the co dependent not him,also regardless of problems whatever they may be,dont fall into that trap,accusing each other the main person in all this is the child,you are the one who is within a stable enviroment,also its a family home,that can only serve to stand you in good stead,and your within a relationship these are all; good scoring points so i think he is just trying to worry you,with his mouth,i can understand to a certain degree as i started proccedings myself in the past but didnt go througth with it as i did not want to put the bairn througth all that,aswell as myself,regardless of any of the circumstances,whatever the out come i wish yous well,good luck.

Answer 3

I doubt very much that any judge in the country would give him residency of your daughter, unless you were a pathetic mum the best place for her is with you, they wouldn't uplift her from her siblings and school etc unless she was in danger which it doesn't sound like so let your ex do his worst, he is just trying every way possible to get at you and the best way is through your daughter, I have a b@stard of an ex like that but he hasn't a cats chance in h**l of getting my son, stick to your guns, continue to be a fab mum and everything will work out perfect in the end

Also explain to the judge the threats your ex is making about not returning your daughter etc, you fear for her life and now want supervised visits only, there are too many nutters out there using children against their mum's and you dont want to be another one

Good luck, I would love if you could let me know how you get on in court 2moro, email me if you get a chance

Kate