Broken heart left behind...

Question

I had this guy friend and we were really close.... some romantic stuff happen for a few months between us than stopped and we had been werid ever since. He left to go back to his country and i sent him a letter about how i felt that he was ignoring me and pretend that he didn't care anymore, and how he never seems interested in talking to me anymore. He told me he never meant to make me feel that way, and we were back to normal....than it started all over again.. it pains me to know he is far away and i can't see him anymore...but him not being interesting in talking to me makes it even worse. He still talks to all my other friends...but i don't exist to him anymore...and i am tired of asking why...i am upset about losing the closeness we had...but he just doesn't seem to care about me at all....and i don't no why he is doing this...and i am at the end of trying to figure out why cause he keeps leading me to a dead end

Answer 1

this guy sounds like a jerk. You were his friend while he was in a strange country and now he treats you like c**p. Sounds like he was just using you. I'd just forget him and move on

Answer 2

He feels really bad, probably.  He is confused and doesn't want to do any more damage, and he just wants to do what he feels would be best.  Obviously he doesn't (or shouldn't!) hate you, I think that it's just that he doesn't want to hurt you any more.  It's probably that and/or he just knows that you can't fit into his big picture.  Try to move on, and just submerge yourself in your interests, meet some people, and go ahead and eat a tub of ice cream!

Answer 3

As a man, husband and father, Many men can be Dogs, they get s*x from a woman and drop them like an old hat. they got what they wanted and go..I keep warning my daughter about guys, I hope she will listen and I hope you learned, don't give away your heart  so easily and so fast.  

Answer 4

he might not interested in you.so you just leave him[forget]if you cannot do that,you make a call from other phone and ask him why would he made such stuff with you, when he don't like you.don't feel bad for this because i know this pain.i already experienced that.

                        or he might some other problem for which he is ignoring you.if this is the case,you can do nothing.  

Answer 5

I hate to say it and it may sound mean but i think in his place where you are concerned, you have served your purpose!!!! Move on to someone who you can see everyday.