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Broken hearted and pregnant?

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i was with my husband for 11 yrs we have 2 children togeather and im 17wks pregnant with our third one two days ago he texted me to say he wasnt coming home and didnt want to be with me anymore i am absolutly devastated im trying to keep it togeather for the kids and the baby on the way but im finding it so hard to cope and dont see how im going to get through this please help!!

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Surround yourself with friends and family right now to support you!!! Get his butt for child support and keep your kids close to you! It'll be hard, but you can do it. What a loser for leaving you! Hang in there hun!
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It's great that you're keeping it together. That's the best thing you can do for the kids. Stress is one of the worst burdens that can be put on an unborn baby. Find someone close to you that you can talk to, and above all SAVE THAT TEXT! you may be able to use it in court and get money for grievances, or it could help with a child support claim. I'm sure that's the last thing on your mind right now, but just stay strong and find someone to talk to. I know you'll make it through.
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Get his tail for Child support Now. Set up divorce papers and make him pay. If you are a stya at home mom yu can probably get alimony and everything. Hit him where it hurts. It will make you feel better. He is such a wimp for texting you like that. Its hard but you keep going. Keep telling yourself you are strong and you have to stay strong for your kids. It will take time but it will work out
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WELL SINCE HE LEFT YOU TO HECK WITH HIM THINK ABOUT YOURSELF AND THOSE WONDERFUL BABIES YOU HAVE,YOU CAN DO JUST WONDERFUL WITHOUT HIM,CAN YOU BELIVE IN HIM AGAIN WHAT ABOUT TRUST THAT;S GONE TOO.BE TOUGH AND GOD ONLY GIVES US WHAT WE CAN HANDLE.
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I totally agree with mandy L. Also you should be glad that jerk is out of your life, especially if he texts you, and you have the right to demand child support! I hope everything works out be strong!
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Omg I am SO sorry hunny. Please do try to keep it together for the children though. Seek professional help if need be. I can't imagine what you're going through! Find someone to talk to. I hope the best for you, I really do!
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im soo sorry, (although i do suspect this question since u joined Y! Answers today). Well if it is true, u should seek help from your parents, siblings, or maybe close friends. What kind of a jack*** leaves his wife and three kids? ya sure there wasn't a reason for his leaving?
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SAVE THE TEXT MESSAGE!!!!

Then get a good lawyer and make his a** pay! That is ridiculous that he TEXT you! What is he in middle school?

I am so sorry you have to go through this, best of luck to you and your children.
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you need to go be with a friend or family member to talk to, to help you through this. Is there anything you new about that lead up to this? has there been problems maybe its whats best, but i dont know i dont know your situation maybe even talking to the kids about it will help you through it hearing how they feel you dont have to let them know all your feelings but sometimes listening to someelse gets you through things. Try not to stress to much not that you can help it GOOD LUCK
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