Brother doesnt want me visiting..

Question

We are really close, at least I think, but he always makes excuses when I want to come visit. I don't understand. I feel really hurt. I live at home with my parents and he is 8 hours in college. He comes and visits here but why doesnt he want me there?

Answer 1

maybe he just doesnt think its a good time

Answer 2

ask  him  why

Answer 3

maybe there is something he is embarrassed about or he has a dirty room, who knows but just talk to him about it and get to the bottom of it.

Answer 4

Absolute freedom from dependence is a completely liberating feeling. He wants to break away from his chains and make new ones.

He's also probably having fun. He's out partying, and maybe drinking alcohol and doing drugs. He doesn't want you around that.

Just deal, things will balance out, right now you should let him do his thing and not bother him.

Answer 5

He's afraid someone might tell you exactly what he does while in college and it isn't just studying....

Answer 6

Maybe he is g*y and he doesn't want you there because you might find out. Just a suggestion. Also, if it bothers you that bad ask him what is the problem. Or you could just up and surprise him.