Brothers and sisters help me...I"m falling?

Question

All around me in my college, girls, girls, everywhere, short shorts, legs. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... its killing me!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

Just don't look have some self control.

I know you can do it!

[Even though I don't know you..]

Answer 2

Yeah, just gotta deal with it.   Where i went to school, any piece of grass was an ideal spot for sun bathing.   IF it gets to be too much, just have some personal time.

Answer 3

hahhaha JIHAD against ur nafs. This is His tests to see whether u r strong or not. Stay strong and lower ur gaze. U'll be fine, incha Allah

Answer 4

Make dua and be strong, you can make it through :)

Answer 5

simply dnt look :)

Answer 6

lol !! pray to Allah to help u in this and don't think about it !! don't look at them and as dead inside said think of them as ur friends !!  may Allah help u with this "jihad alnfs"

Answer 7

Ok im a girl and girls are beautiful cuz im pretty but anyway make them your friends and if your not dating try and get more comfortable with your "Girl" as friends and they may like you.

hope it helped

Answer 8

pray to God to help u overcome the temptation to stare.

Stay focused. Remind urself wat ur tryin to accomplish in skool, and that lookin at girls isnt one of em.

Answer 9

Stick to ur eemaan and lower ur gaze or look somewhere else when u come across such scenes...whats so hard in that?

Answer 10

Salam.

As a woman I dont full understand the male experience or temptations, our nafs are different.  However I can tell you that by indulding your eyes with the sight of girls is very bad for society.  It gives women a satisfaction and a vanity that increases competition between women and the more men look, the vainer women get and the more they want to please men for selfish, narcissistic reasons.

By not lowering the gaze you are not only abandoning your very personal jihad an-nafs but you are also encouraging society to continue to decay, for men and women to act worse than animals.

It is degrading to yourself and women, haram lust is an arrogant thing.  To see men looking at women disgusts me as much as seeing vain, uncovered women with their nose in the air.

When I see a muslim lower his gaze it is the most beautiful, humble thing in the world, just like seeing a nice, humble muslimah well covered.  

Lowering the gaze and modesty promote humility and we should all strive for that.

Answer 11

make sure to wear a good under pants

Answer 12

I hear you bro

All girls are pretty , just don't think about it , try to consider them all as your friends , just don't look

Answer 13

My dear brother salam for you.You must make your sight down .You can see them (beautiful girls) only for the first sight for seeing the beauty of Allah's creation.But your sight can not be prolonged for the second sight because it is tempted by satans.You must focus your mind for your lessons.You must make fasting for lowering/decreasing your lust because Muhammad pbuh said that fasting can  control and reduce your lust. You must do mandatory pray on time and make also sunnah praying  and zikir or remind Allah .

If you could not control your own lust by fasting, but you can afford a wife just married to someone you love.Allah does not allow to approach and to do zinah or adultery.

Answer 14

Its simple brother you don't look! You are not to look with lust upon women whether they show there legs or not. Keep your eyes straight ahead and you will have no problems. Your a normal young man with normal feelings. Its how you choose to act upon those feelings that count, its your intentions to solve the issue that is what matters. Allah is all seeing and all knowing....

Peace to you brother and keep your chin UP! lol ;)

Answer 15

This is your exam and Allah is examining you that how strong is your faith. He is watching you and listening you that Do you deserves for heaven or h**l???

So you have to fight with Shaitan and to keep safe yourself from bad things. Allah has given you much power that you can safe yourself from bad things. Now its upon to you.

Answer 16

don't you think, i see the same thing in School!!

don't be so easy, be a strong muslim, have control over your nafis!!!!

you have to win it, you have to struggle against your nafis!!

believe that we are muslims, we should not look at non-muharmas!! if you are old enough, get married brother!!

May Allah (swt) save all Muslims from fitna!!