B*tch playing me it seems, advice, life sucks now??

Question

she says we are like best friends, but i found out its all a sham. i have feelings for her now. turns out she just wanted someone to be her buffer, so shes not alone, she two faced. she deleted me from msn, then lied about it, and prob laughs at me when im not around. shes always talking to me and shes in my class.

1.do i ignore her/cold shoulder?

2. why did u think she did this?

3. has this happened to you?

4. i feel like a loser now.

Answer 1

find some one else to like cuz she is a ***** and is just playin for atention.just ignore her ,she did it cuz that is what some girls do, no cant say it has Dont feel like a looser your not the only person that it has happend to.  

Answer 2

best way to handle this and show that your life isn't ruined because of her is to walk  tall and confident, and when you see her in class or around school, just say hello with a smile on your face and get on with your business.  don't act hurt or embarrassed.  just be friendly, but in a light way, the way you would be with anyone else.  act and look uneffected.  and, don't ever allow her or anyone else to use you in the future.  

Answer 3

yeh she is playing games...she already had you in her 'friend' cat so basically bro lose the girl b4 she causes you any more pain btw there are good women out there that dont play games like that so **** the ***** and move on wit it you wanna b betta at her ****** games then you need to ignore her perhaps sleep wit her best gal as a friend yeh that mellows em out....maybe get yourself a buffer  

Answer 4

Thank you Natasha!

If you're the type of guy that calls women sexist slurs, no wonder she did that to you. The "b-word" has been used to dehumanize women since the 1400s by comparing them to dogs. It's a sexist, degrading and dehumanizing word that should never leave a man's mouth, just like the "n-word". You owe all women an apology for being sexist.

Answer 5

Well I have been there several times, and it sucks. But you get over it and tell her to **** off!! Just stop talking to her. And shes isn't worth your self pity. Get back out there and find a better chicka!!

Answer 6

Okay you are not a loser just because one girl is playing games.  Just ignore her and move on and find someone better for you.

Answer 7

1. don't ignore her necessarily, but if she decides she wants to be best friends forever again, don't let her get what she wants so quickly. remember you felt this way and make it clear to her that you don't want to go through it again

2. i think you're right, she just didn't want to be alone, i mean maybe if i knew her personally i could think of another reason she might have done it, but you know best and if this is why you think she did it you're probably right

3. i have had "convenient friends" before. the friends that only want to be your friend when they need someone. She would be my best friend outside school, but as soon as she got around her friends she'd look at me like a was a loser and whisper about me whenever i said something to her. It was bad, so i didn't totally dump the relationship, but we aren't close friends anymore. we talk on occasion but thats pretty much it.

4. it's okay, let some time go by, you'll feel better soon. try making some new friends, or hanging out with some old friends more. she'll come around, or you'll just forget about her and move on to hanging out with people who appreciate you  

Answer 8

1. Ignore her...hands down.

2. She wants attention, she's def two-faced and gets a kick out of ******* up people's lives...also she has problems. she probably uses people for everything

3. Maybe...

4. You are not a loser, we all fall for people's traps and empty promises and stuff. In actuality she's the loser because she has no one because she's a ****** up person.

Answer 9

don't be too down on yourself for that. Im sure you'll find somebody real special/

Answer 10

I don't blame her for playing you.I think it's disrespect for you to call her that.

Answer 11

She played you because you're a loser for calling a woman a *****. For example, if a black person wronged a white person is it ok to use the n word? No, of course not. Therefore it's wrong for you to call a woman a ***** just because one woman wronged you.

The only ***** here is you.