Bullied at school?

Question

im 13 (7th going on 8th grade) and i have bully problems. well there are those 3 guys who are weird. everyday i sit with 1 at lunch, and its all good but then they get together and start making fun of me, and then say they're sorry after i get angry but do it again some other day. And this one sh*thead on my bus keeps on annoying me and throwing stuff at me. the worst part is when they make jokes because im from a differnet country. and i dont wanna tell my parents (they'll be really worried) and if i tell the teacher they might tell my parents HELP

Answer 1

you dont deserve to be bullied. i think you should talk to your parents or the school so they can get a hold of the bullies parents and they will stop bullying you.

Answer 2

You shouldnt allow them to continue to bully you so you need to tell a teacher or your parents.

Answer 3

your parents might be worried but you need to tell them.  They can talk with the principle about possible solutions.  My son went through similar problems but at a much younger age.  Eventually he found the kids he fit in with the best, started playing sports and is no longer having those issues.  My suggestion just find the kids that you most fit with and try to stay clear of the problem children.  As for the child on the bus ask the bus driver to move you or to talk with the child that is behaving this way.  If you don't feel comfortable have your parents talk with the bus driver when they drop you off.  Unfortunately bullying is very common but it doesn't have to be tolerated.

Answer 4

Go speak to a higher source, the bus driver, your teacher and principal. Can you file a "Bully Report " at your school. Something will be done if you go and speak to someone.

Next, whip there butts!

I tell my son if someone is bothering you , you go and speak to someone, if they hit you........you have our permission to beat them and we will handle the school and any thing that may arise from it.,  of course he is only 8!

Answer 5

Well I these guys do not sound like your friends at all. So I would stop sitting with them at lunch. If they ask why explain to them calmly but firmly that you already asked them not to make fun of you and they will not listen so you will just sit with someone else. If that is not an option (like if you have assigned lunch seats) then ignore them ...as hard as it is. They keep doing it because they know they can get to you so just carry on eating your lunch and act like you don't hear them or change the subjuct. Once they realize they are not getting a response from you it won't be as fun to pick on you anymore.

Answer 6

wait... I'm not from here either... I have same problem on the bus. I'm 14. Today, I broke that little s**+theads nose. I had enough. 7 years of bulling in Poland, now I come here and again that's another 4 years. I just dont do anything because I dont mind anymore :3

Ok, try not hanging out with them first. If they will come to you, tell them to leave you alone. however make sure that you are in place where people can see you, because otherwise you are in danger. However, never ever EVER show them any respect, dont show that you're angry, and dont look at them, look into the sky when you're talking or they are talking to you, so that they see that you dont give a d**n. It works for me, with every little ***** that comes up... really!

If that will not stop, you have to tell. Either your parents, or your teacher. You have a right to safe journey and you are not supposed to be worried about someone who can't manage their own feeling so they give it out on you.

Good luck, I will put this to the watch list, so if you have any other concerns just add detail and I will answer :)

oh, and please dont cut or anything like that. just take a look what I tried when I got broke

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