Bullied by my sister, I now enjoy being dominated by women. Can anyone explain why this is?

Question

As a boy I was very, very thin and non-athletic. My sister was one year younger and quite a little jock. She was into gymnastics, softball, even football with the neighborhood boys. She was very buffed for a girl and as strong as some of the older boys. She knew she was much stronger than me and used to enjoy pinning me down and making me give up. Funny thing is, for some reason I now enjoy what I used to hate. I deliberately married a woman who is a personal trainer and jacked with muscle. I love it, all of it. I love feeling her strength and her muscles. I know she's way stronger than me and we both seem to get off on it. Did being dominated by my little sister years ago cause this?

Answer 1

When I was younger I had an aunt touch me. It makes me deffinately have similar feeling towards older women. Right now I am with a woman who is 11 years older than me.

It's certainly possible that childhood experiences can shape your sexual feelings, and orientation today. If you want a more in depth answer you can consult a s*x therapist http://www.webmd.com/s*x-relationships/g...

Answer 2

Don't even dwell on it! Just enjoy what you enjoy!

PS. I think everything has something to do with our childhood experiences, but so what. Where do you draw the line?

Answer 3

No you just enjoy it. You've gain some sort of pleasure by it. Nothing to worry about that is fine.