Bullying advice?

Question

really looking for any help here, ok my 9 year old daughter fell out with a friend last year, thats fine as kids fall out and make up all the time but, this girls mother was not happy that her wonderful daughter had lost a friend and since then has made things very awkward at school, she has encouraged her daughter to be nasty to my daughter for no reason, the mother has pulled face`s, shouted at my daughter in the street calling her names, my daughter is now terrified to go out in case she see`s the mother!! Now i know my daughter is no angel, and yes she can be a little madam but, for goodness sake this a grown woman behaving like a 6 year old, i have been ignoring her remarks for months and told my daughter to just walk and ignore it but after what she done to my daughter today well, enough is enough, so as i obviously can`t talk to this woman as i tried that and got dogs abuse, what do i do, she is intimidating my daughter, please help, thank you

Answer 1

no dont go 2 police, dat will sho how weak of a man u r.

u will need 2 march down to dat HUSSY's house, kick down door, and chalenge her husband 2 man to man battle.  u must sho who is boss or ur daughter will not respect u as father ne more.

Answer 2

dont ever ignore someone like that you should talk but keep walking .. dont say anything back to get you into trouble

Answer 3

Go in talk to the girls teachers your and hers tell them both your daughter is being harrasted and tell the Presable of the school , that is not tolerated . Then call the police and file a report. You do these three things and you'll have that mother cowering down . Good Luck I hate mean people

Answer 4

i would go to the cops this is mean to your poor doughter give her best wishes and tell her everythings going to be okay you can ask the school if your daughter could be in a different class as her next yeat

Answer 5

The woman is an adult and should be acting like one, report her to the police.

Answer 6

The fact that this is an adult bullying a child is downright WRONG, we know it happens in kids and in adults but an adult bullying a kid that's downright criminal. Can you not contact the police? i would think she deserves a bit of a wake up call so she gets the message that her behaviour will not be tolerated. I admire you and your daughter for being the better people ignoring it and walking away is the best strategy but i would seriously consider calling at your local police station for a chat with a family liaison officer.

Good luck and a big old pat on the back for your good behaviour, if we as parents continue to lead by example there will always be decent people left.

Answer 7

it was happening to my 8 year old daughter and i told my daughter to go into to school and hit the person that say it she did then the girls mum wentfor me outside school

Go to headteacher and police

i did wrong thing telling my daughter to stick up for herself or so it seems

Answer 8

Take up the bullying with the school, in writing I am sure that your aware all schools have to have a policy buy writing your laying a paper trail that can be followed.

Although the mothers behaviour in your street is nothing to do with the school if she intimidates your daughter you have a number of options available to you, depending upon how you want to go about it.

Complain to your local police/council if she approaches your child and try to get proof by getting witnesses to these events or video her  hide the camera under a coat so she cant tell if possible, and is unaware of the camera.

If you can get proof of this the police could charge her with harassment and if she is a council tenant ask them to pass this information on to your council, who may look at warning her about her behaviour and the fact she could loose her home if she does not stop this.

Answer 9

Oh my God... a PARENT is doing that to your child?!

I would be contacting the police immediately! At the very least, you need a restraining order against this psycho.

Answer 10

carry a video camera and arrest her for for harassment . remember the story last year two young girls got into it and was not friends and the one girls mom interrogated the other girl on the Internet  playing a  boy next door and she made him end  their relationship and the young girl hung her self out of humiliation. end this before its to late.