Butterface?? ughh... how can i raise my self esteem?

Question

okay, so ive never really thought of myself as ugly. not exactly gorgeous but not like butt ugly, you know? well anyway, i was talking to a couple of guys the other day and as i was walking away i heard one say something about 'butterface'. i dont know for Sure that they were talking about me but i cant think of anyone else theyd be talking about. i tried talking to my bestfriend but all she said was, 'well, at least he thinks your body's hot' uhg, a lot of help that was. so i need to know how im supposed to make myself feel better. can you guys please help me out?? thanks :) <33

Answer 1

...m********e  

Answer 2

Ignore it because you know what....

Even if you see the prettiest girl you have ever seen in your life theres going to be certain guys that think shes ugly. Everyone has their own opinion about looks/girls/yada yada and theres nothing you can do about it. Ive had a many of guys think Im hot, but theres also been that few that had not so nice things to say! It happens to everyone!

Answer 3

yoyou anserd my question and you where the only one who gave me a postive anser thanks for dat if that is your pitcher dont worry the are prujust slime balls **** them you ant ugluy i like you but u older pice out

Answer 4

it&#039;s fine, hunnie. thats terrible that those guys said that. i hate when people make stupid comments. just know that ur better than them and if it makes u feel better people call me my name in spanish, jordan, but with an &quot;h&quot; sound for the j. yes well if u really wanna boost ur self esteem, just go have a girly day, u know? get ur nails done, get a facial, get ur hair done, that always makes me feel better.

hope i helped! :]

Answer 5

If you feel attractive, that will radiate to others. Start biulding your confidence through ways such as being around people that respect and look up to you.

BTW who the h**l cares what those guys say? Dont let some dumbasses ruin your life!

Answer 6

they were just showing off for each other.

Answer 7

Personality is the most important. Like the guy that said that he defiantly has a horrible personality. Just try to be better than him and your life will turn out nicely.  

Answer 8

definition: butterface; meaning;

everything about her looks good but her face say &quot;but her face&quot; really fast  

Answer 9

Well perhaps you maybe just paranoid they maybe talking about something else.  If thats your face in profile there its preety nothing to be concerned over in my opinion.

Answer 10

Good looks will get a guy to aproach you, but personality is why they stay with you. Hope that makes you feel better.

Answer 11

First of all they might not even have been talking about you so do not think about it. Even if they were that is a few people that may think that about you, it is not the whole school.

You look hot to some people and not to others, it is like that wither everyone.

Do not let it bother your self esteem, you are probably a cute girl who is kind to everyone you know.  

Answer 12

All I can say is that I really like 13 year old Canadian girls who like the same sports as me. I like figure skating, swimming, and cheerleading. I also like singing and playing the piano. I&#039;m a vegetarian as well who sticks up for animal rights! There I bet that makes you feel better.

Answer 13

dont listen to jerks like that

Answer 14

dont worry if you think that you are ugly then you are just making yourself feel badand thats not good just think about your good qualities and not your bas ones or you will end up feeling terrible anyways no one loooks perfect thats why we have make up

Answer 15

don&#039;t sweat it all they care is about p***y and don&#039;t see whats on the inside. They need to get lives, if i saw them they would of got it real bad and by the way you look pretty cute on your pic or whoever but who cares what people think about you you are who you are if they don&#039;t like it than o well.

Answer 16

A person&#039;s looks should not define that person (whether the person is handsome or ...not).

If you found a sweet puppy at a shelter, and that puppy was disfigured from either a birth defect or an accident, would you not want to love that puppy simply because of its looks?

Give yourself the kindness you would show to an animal or child.   Five or ten years from now, you will not even remember those guys.   I recommend you decide whose opinions really matter to you, and learn to ignore the opinions that should not matter to you.

Answer 17

All I can say is if that&#039;s your picture (your avatar) then you are not a butterface!!!  You are really pretty!

Answer 18

Look in the mirror and say &quot;I love you&quot;

Love your self.  It helps I promise.

Answer 19

Dont care bout wat otha ppl think of u, live yo life as if u were da most gorgeous gurl in da world and do anythin u want no matter wat othas think of u. I dono how old u r but it sounds like ur either bout to start high school or in high skoo, da only way ur gonna get thru dose 4 yrs witout sheddin a single tear is not carin bout others thoughts, jus simply do wat feels rite to u, if it doesn dont do it. Most of da time if u go wit ur gut ur gonna b rite. hope i helped

ps plus guys are gonna be guys, we say stupid c**p in front of friends even tho we&#039;re ur lil dog wen its jus u 2 alone

Answer 20

Is that you on the photo? You seem cute! I think you&#039;re cute, and you know what? Don&#039;t feel bad about yourself, be confident and just keep walking. If that guy didn&#039;t like you that was his problem, you only have to please the persons that you like. If you aren&#039;t comfortable with your body or have some problem about your face or some other thing try to change it for the better, if you don&#039;t, just keep smilling and you&#039;ll be just fine

Answer 21

What does it matter what he thinks? It matters what YOU think!! You said you don&#039;t think of yourself as ugly, so some days you must think yourself pretty. :o) Tell yourself everyday that you are pretty and you will be it...both inside AND outside. Bodies are not hot forever.

Answer 22

Boys can be jerks. What it means is that your face looks like your butt. There is another meaning too that is similar to what you are saying. Anyway, if I was your age, I would punch the first one within reach. and say goodnight d**k.

No doubt one of them has a major crush on you but they are too embarrassed to show it.

All you have to do is read some bios of some women that other men consider beautiful. When I was in school, I thought I was ugly. No guys dated me. I was ugly.

The only thing that matters is that you think you are beautiful and the man in your life, down the road a few years, will think so too.

In the meantime, smear some butter in his face tomorrow in the cafe and I&#039;ll bet he never says it again.

Answer 23

Just ignore it .

Your not supposed to care about what others think of you .

Answer 24

Just go s***w a bunch of men and it will make you feel better, at least they&#039;ll think you&#039;re hot enough to s***w.

Answer 25

I&#039;ll admit to being a bit mystified by people with low self esteem. People say bad things about me and it hurts my feelings sometimes, but none of it really sticks to me. Like you, I know my faults and the limits to those faults. I&#039;m not going let anyone exagerate them in my head and I&#039;m not going to fool myself into thinking I&#039;m better than I am. The most popular and most beautiful in our society get people who tell them horrific things about themselves, but we know it&#039;s BS. People are full of it. Keep on improving yourself and listen only to what&#039;s true and do what you can. If you WERE butt ugly...well there&#039;s no point stressing on it...what would you do? Never come out of your house? It is what it is. You didn&#039;t create the world or beauty...you&#039;re not responsible for any of it.