By me staying ‘celibate’ and s*x free as I’ve decided is best, will I be a better man in Feminist thinking?

Question

I know that it is not exactly self-castration, but I do believe that it makes me stronger, and my thinking clearer.........

I’m aware that some men and some women’ll most likely ridicule me on here but it’s my decision, and I’m strong and un-apologetic about it!!

But is it likely to be the third way, the new way?

Or will I still be hated the same?

Answer 1

Whatever you decide to do; do it first for you; after you are satisfied do it for others. You don't want to give any body a half-baked notion do you. Always begin with what you want and need; the rest will follow. Oh and yes; never let go of a belief or an idea just because others don't like it; they are not you.

Answer 2

Abstaining from s*x has never been a trait of feminism.

Being a lover who satisfies your woman and gives her orgasms is a step in the right direction.  You can't just be in it for your own pleasure, you need to prioritize her pleasure.  Do that and you'll have a great s*x life.  If not, other women will find out that you're a lousy lay...Any feminist (or any WOMAN at all would tell you that).

Answer 3

Congrats on staying "celibate" and s*x free, I'm told that a lot men with chauvinistic views are also celibate because they cannot learn to love a woman as a woman. No Offense intended but what do you think?  =P

Answer 4

If that is the way you want to live then you should be proud of yourself and stick to your principles no matter what other people say. If someone is slightly different, then people like to ridicule so that's their problem.

it has nothing to do with having s*x or not, but yes you are liberating yourself from societies views and living your life how YOU want to so yes that's great!

Answer 5

if the lady is a L*****n she won't care and you are barking up the wrong tree.

a feminist likes s*x, just like everybody else.  s*x isn't the issue, it's your chauvinistic views.  you need more life experiences to enrich yourself culturally.  learn to love a woman as a woman, not just as a s*x object.  look at them as a woman, respect them, etc.  take the s*x obsession out your mind and you'll appreciate a new type of woman.

Answer 6

Hey, do what you have to do. But one should never expect anyone to respect anything that one does. That's just an added bonus.

Answer 7

Trust me . . . for a moment . . . and then we'll go back to cat-and-mouse, but what you are describing is one of the more interesting secrets that this exotic old spirit of mine has run across in all the "rise within yourself into greater honor" stuff I harp on about a lot.  A man your age, going celibate for exactly those reasons you stated  . . . STRONGER and THINKING CLEARER . . . is extraordinarily EFFECTIVE.  Men like you who choose that path, for however long but for at least two years with true . . . not "indifference" to women but dissociation from them. . . are like launched on this REALLY fortunate Life roll-out of brilliant awareness and STRENGTH of ego in their primes of about 45-65.  That's when ALL men are their best, in my female preference.  But, these kind of guys who had that time to be just unto themselves without the drama and blood and core of courtship / marriage / family gonadal trauma that accompanies ANY male-female social relationship, good or bad . . . there's just lots tears and drama and broken hearts in the game of love . . .they turn out to be the VERY best of men.  I search for them.  Those wise old guys.  I am about to lose heart for want of one of them to love.  I am attracted only to these men with MIGHTY ego strength.  And, they are soooo rare.  What they all have in common, though, is they had that time "unto themselves" when they were younger.  I think that time free of gonadal trauma fundamentally steeles their egos from the beginning and gives them psychological advantages the rest of their lives.

Answer 8

Yes that is good and you are also considered wonderful in religious minds I think you are the best I wish I could meet men like you. But alas our culture has taken a turn for the worst when it comes to the issue of s*x. Now it has to deal with the consequences child pregnancy, relationship problems, STD madness etc...etc....

However we will only like you if you support women and stop saying that men are suffering sooo much and we are man haters or that we hate men or that we don't shave etc.....

You might as well say all black people are fat, ugly, speak Ebonics, smoke weed. Not true.

This is called stereotyping, prejudice and in the case of saying "men suffer more" self centered and selfish

Answer 9

Hi Andrew M  you do what you feel is right and good luck to you!  Love is far more important than s*x that is just a bonus once you have built up a strong relationship.  As for the third way, the new way the number 3 is the beginning and the end of everything, trust me and look - 3 comes into your life on a regular basis and it is a positive number.  Good luck mate!

Answer 10

Lots of sexist pig-men are celibate. I don't think it will necessarily work.

But if you think it will make you a better man, then give it a try! Good for you for at least making an attempt to better yourself.

Answer 11

It is your choice don't let anyone change your mind about it.

Answer 12

I'm glad you are ready for me to ridicule you.

Treating women fairly has nothing to do with doing it.

Now what's the real reason you're giving up on doing it.

Answer 13

No, but it will help the gene pool. :-)

Answer 14

I'm celibate too.

By choice... I love it. Good luck.

Women actually seem to hate men who choose this for some reason.

Answer 15

Do what you want to do , i am also celibate , your choices are none of my business

Answer 16

Hmmm . . . interesting thought process here.  I don't know if being celibate will help you be more understanding to women, but if it makes you feel stronger and better about yourself, that is good.

I think the best way to encourage feminist thinking is to learn about women's history of opression and inequality and work to improve their situation.  Take it one step further and work to free the opressed and poverty stricken all over the world.

Peace!

Answer 17

Regardless of what you choose in your s*x life, once people knew it they become prejudice to your decision.

I say, whatever makes you happy and comfortable go for it.

Don't try to waste your youthful days just to uphold a better thinking for some feminists.