CAN I GET SOME HELP WITH MY FRIEND?!?!?!?!?

Question

alright i had this friend from kindergarten (im in 8th grade now) and i really dont like her. i dont want to be her friend anymore but i dont know how to let her know or if i should somehow get her mad at me or what????? please help!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

You didn't say why exactly you don't want to be her friend anymore. But, people change. If both of you are hanging out with new groups of friends and have different interests now I'm sure it could be a mutual feeling. Just talk to her about it and be honest. She may feel the same way. If she's too clingy try to spend a little less time with her and maybe you can still be friends, just not together all the time. If she's hanging out with some bad people just tell her straight out that the people she hangs out with are bad. Whatever you do, be gentle and don't leave a bad taste in any ones mouth. Who knows, one day you might be friends again. My best friend from kindergarten started hanging around people I thought were mean in 6th grade. We drifted apart for years but now we're both headed to the same college and are starting to be friends again.

Answer 2

it down with her and tell her the whole story why you are doing and stuff like that, be as kind adn honest as you possibly can be, as it would probobly sadden her a lot,

Answer 3

Just gradually start spending less and less time with her. I had a friend since kindergarten and last year (9th grade) she got kinda into drugs because she thought it was cool, and she stole a pair of underwear from urban outfitters just to say she'd stolen something, and she was PROUD of herself, I mean wtf? So, I did have to carpool with her, but I didn't hang out with her at school, and I would go hang out with other people if she came over to me.

Answer 4

WELL WHATEVER U DO DON'T GO STRAIGHT OUT AND YELL OR SAY IT HARSH, ITS WORSE POSSIBLE THING U COULD DO!!! EXPERIENCE!!!!!!!

I think u should maybe give hints, if thats not working maybe u should say it nice but not like this " U know we've been friends for a long time but i don't like u so bye" kind of a bad thing to say!!!just say something like "I know we've been friends for a long time but i think we should go our seperate ways" if ur not like that where u dont want to say that then if u want sure make u two get in a fight!!! JUST REMEMBER NOT TO HARSH AND NOT TO GOODIE GOODIE NICE.

Answer 5

u cant say u dont want to be friends with someone without having their feelings hurt. and why do u care if she gets angry anyway when u dislike her? just suck it up and do it already

Answer 6

ok first you are not realy stupid (the thing under your avatar hehehehe)

and i have the same problem but all i did was i never acted mad at her all i did was i never talked to her but if she askes me something then i would answer but i never talked to her first and during class i did not sit by her than after a while she got the message that we where no longer frineds without her feelings being hurt

Answer 7

tell her you don't want to be her friend.....

Answer 8

welll why dontt u tht depondss causeee i mean ifshe annyos u than dela with it shes ur friend. if shes  a ***** or something or uses u

than be like fckk u hahaha[:

Answer 9

I have the same problem. When ever the friend comes up to you to talk, you should wait for an opening in the conversation, and then say: I have to go. When ever she wants to hang out, just say: no thanks. I know its hard, but she'll get the message. Good Luck!

Answer 10

I think you should ask yourself why you don't want to be friends with her anymore.  Has she done something to offend you?  If she has then you should confront her and tell her how she made you feel.  If you just don't have the same interests anymore and you don't want to hurt her feelings then just drift away from her gradually.  

Answer 11

You will find, as you get older, that the direct approach is sometimes better. If you get her  mad at you, then what if she forgives you later and wants to be friends again. Also, you don't want to be totally rude because sometimes its nice to chat with an old friend, so don't burn any bridges. This is what I would tell her, "I know that we have been friends for a very long time, but sometimes people grow up in different directions. I think that I need time to figure out who I am outside of our friendship."

Answer 12

Just tell her, you guys are in different paths now. And you don't want her to hang out with you anymore. Tell her it's not personal, k? Even though it may seem personal. Maybe she's your friend, but to me, you aren't really being a good friend. She'll get mad at you, but don't blame her, a friend wouldn't let another friend go down.

Man, you kids make it look like a hard situation, but it's not. Go tell her for yourself, you are supposed to reach to that age to be ''mature'' and be responsible for yourself. Not wanting people's opinions.

Answer 13

I had the same problem as you just sit down with her and say um I don't think this friendship will work out

can you try answering mine

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Answer 14

If this girl is someone you really don't like, just sit her down one day and tell her, "Um, (her name here.) I really don't think this friendship is gonna work out, because I don't think of you as a really close person. I'm sorry. But we can still talk and cross paths. Except I really don't wanna B ur friend." Give her a hug, and offer her a chocolate. That's it. If she takes it offensively, it's okay. You did nothing wrong. If she says it's okay, smile, say thanks, and move on! good luck! :)

Answer 15

tell her nicely that you don't want to be friends anymore.

I normally just withdraw from talking to a person if I don't want to be friends with them.