CAN SOMEONE HELP ME??????????

Question

hey im kind of worried about myself i tel myself just about every day that im stupid and ugly and everyone hates me and ya.... i cant help it. any ideas what to do to make myself really see that im not

Answer 1

STOP IT RIGHT NOW! You're not ugly or stupid. I used to be the same way love. I would put myself down all the time. I did it because that's what I was told from others. I was told all the time that I was ugly and nothing. PLEASE remember that we all are special and different. God loves you NO MATTER WHAT. Every morning tell yourself that you're beautiful because you are. Tell yourself your smart because you are. Tell yourself you're brave because you are. It takes guts to ask for help. It only MATTERS WHAT YOU THINK. If someone puts you down laugh and smile because you know they are wrong.

There are so many horrible people in the world who would love to see you fail. It's freaking sad but so true. The only person who can make you feel better is you. Others can say you're pretty and smart but it won't matter. Why? because you need to believe it yourself. So right now you are going to change. Starting tomorrow write yourself love notes. Write down why your friends love you. Write down why your family loves you. When you're feeling down READ THEM. Don't ever let someone make you feel like you don't matter.

Answer 2

Well you already know that you are NOT so that's a good first step.  I was like that too....very badly.  They say "positive self talk" does wonders.  That means to tell yourself over and over just the opposite of what you are telling yourself now.  Tell yourself how beautiful and smart you are and that it's peoples loss if they don't like you...  good luck

PS...Oh, and change your avatar's name to something positive like "hot and smart".....you get the idea